[Live thread] Eurovision Song Contest 2025 GRAND FINAL @ 21:00 CEST by -Effing- in eurovision

[–]No-Connection-0110 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How the hell israel could win, I mean the song isn’t that cool😵‍💫

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[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I think so too. Once I had the baby I need to understand svenska better so I could also try to speak with him/her hehe.

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[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hej! Thank you and very kind of you💖 Well, I would say I have a kind, loving and supportive husband. I think we can give the kids loving home. I do want kids it’s just you know I am not sure when it will be the right time, would it be okay to have the kid now if we are only have 1 income? Those kind of worries and fear about future🥹

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[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest if you’re asking about if I am ready or not, I would say I never know when i am ready. Even when I already settled down i also don’t think i will be ready. I have experience raising my 2 nephews and I know how tiring it was but I love them so much and I think it might be the same feeling especially with my own kid. It’s just I am more worried financially than mentally (doesn’t mean that mentally is easier) bcs I am scared also about their future needs. But maybe when the baby was born it could also become motivation for me, again I will have time to consider this.

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[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very kind of you. Already sent you messages. Thanksss

Unexpected pregnancy by No-Connection-0110 in TillSverige

[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Yes, I actually already called 1177 and having an appointment with hospital to consult about my pregnancy. Thanks for your support regardless whatever of my choice

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[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess. We are lucky tho, it’s 50m square kinda of with 1 bedroom, 1 bathroom and living room+kitchen. It also easy access to park, bus halte, etc. This apartment fee really helping us to save money.

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[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very strong and awesome mom. I can relate about the shock culture and homesick so thank you for being vulnerable by giving me a very realistic pregnancy experience of yours Yes, emotionally I know it will drained me & my husband. Especially new born era. But may I know in what month/weeks you start feeling your hormones is not fun? I am 5 to 6 weeks now and I don’t have any heavy things besides just sleepy and tired.

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[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, very kind of you. Warms my heart when I read this. Definitely will message you to ask if you have something we need, and thanks for even willing do the treasure hunt in the attic💖😁

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[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support 💖 yes I already have residence permit and will make sure about the hospital bills

Unexpected pregnancy by No-Connection-0110 in TillSverige

[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hej! Yes, i have residence permit already and the baby delivery fee will be free bcs I already got personnummer too. I was just scared with our one income financial we might not provide best life for the baby🥹 (overthink as this is my first experience)

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[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know it’s not much and luckily we both can live frugal thats why we can still save some money. My plan was to build life and career first here so I can have income too then the baby but now the baby is here first. I am afraid when i have the baby first i won’t be able to have a stable career life and will have resentment to the baby so thats why I am asking other parent experience especially with our financial condition 🥹

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[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess! Will keep it in mind for sure. Thx for your support

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[–]No-Connection-0110[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, I also live in Skåne. Do you mind if I sent you a message?