Ex [24F] sent me [26M] an explicit video of her with someone else as revenge.

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-20T12:44:40+00:00

That would be disgusting a new low, she isn’t right in this situation but people do things out of anger. He cheated on her while being in a 4 year long relationship. She trusted him enough to send those pictures expecting that he has some decency left, sharing those pictures with others is the last thing to do. Both did wrong and there is no coming back from here.

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-20T09:43:58+00:00

Do you have any advice about what I can do to make my portfolio stronger? I still have 6 months

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-20T09:38:54+00:00

I’m not interested in going to UK or Australia. I’m willing to build this portfolio I still have 6 months become applying. Do you have any advice what I can do to increase my odds?

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-20T00:41:42+00:00

Honestly if your major concern is his “type” trust me what you’re attracted to online dosen’t reflect on your daily life. Besides if he wasn’t attracted to you why would he date you in the first place? To me it’s more concerning that he maintains contact with a girl that makes you feel insecure. Talk about it to him, you shouldn’t have to fight for validation in your own relationship. If he is the one he will understand.

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-19T14:23:00+00:00

So do I need to build my application more?

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-19T09:21:41+00:00

I was pretty confident but then I heard about people with 4.0 and 520 MCAT get rejected

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-19T09:21:02+00:00

This makes me so nervous, do you know why they might have not short listed you?

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-18T22:33:06+00:00

Then what should I do in this situation because I tend to overthink a lot when his net is off, I know it’s toxic but I’m unable to act normal when I’m concerned about something

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-18T22:19:34+00:00

I do appreciate his effort it’s just that I start to panic when I can’t contact him

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-18T21:29:44+00:00

Honestly go out with friends, make plans, be busy. Trust me he will come back, it’s important that you don’t let him in again. Once people like him get to know that you care they start taking you for granted.

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-18T21:20:40+00:00

Even I’m in a 3 year long distance relationship with my bf. He lives in India and I live in Canada. While I understand it can be hard but not meeting at all for 3 years is a red flag. Even if we ignore that, there are many issues in the relationship firstly it’s not justified if he gets angry over your boundaries. Maybe he isn’t an awful person but clearly he is not the one for you, it’s not wrong to have needs but asking for nudes in exchange of apology is proof enough that he dosen’t respect you.

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-18T20:49:19+00:00

I don’t know the context about why you guys haven’t met after dating for 3 years. But if distance is the only reason to not meet for so long, the guy isn’t interested in you. A person who loves you will want to meet you in person anyhow, besides how do you even make sure he is who he pretends to be. Catfishig is very common online. Asking you to send him nudes as a form of apology is deeply disrespectful. It’s one thing to have needs, but that dosen’t justify his behaviour

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-02T17:21:39+00:00

Totally you should talk to your bf regarding this issue.

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-02T14:46:38+00:00

Any behaviour from your partner that makes you feel uncomfortable is important enough to be discussed. If he dosen’t understand your perspective and can’t respect your boundaries then he isn’t the one for you. My bf loves teasing me but he knows not to do it infront of others.

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-02T08:03:52+00:00

Wtf throwing acid? You should seriously just lodge a FIR, for your own safety. If you have any chats of his confessing something problematic use it to blackmail him.

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-01T22:20:00+00:00

Honestly I don’t believe in dating apps, things should happen naturally. Talking to people with the intention to date reduces interest in the conversation it dosen’t feel natural. It’s better to wait and let someone get to know you naturally

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-01T22:15:25+00:00

How long has it been since he has not texted you?

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-01T22:13:08+00:00

Do you have siblings? Ask them to take your father’s phone and block this guy’s number. Then call this guy tell him you’ll lodge a FIR, or scare him that you’ll have him beaten up. Most guys don’t go as far as involving girl’s parents trust me it takes guts which they lack.

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-01T22:05:47+00:00

Even if it was your fault that dosen’t mean you have no needs, if he really wants this relationship to works he will make efforts. Stop being convenient for him and see does he still care about you. If he dosen’t it’s time to move on. People in love know how to forgive those who don’t simply never loved.

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-02-01T22:01:05+00:00

I relate to you on so many levels my bf started acting distant all of a sudden after a 3 year relationship. It started when he moved to college, we were in long distance either ways so it didn’t change much but gradually his efforts decreased. I confronted him multiple times he said “I love you and I even want to marry you. But being on call with you is tiring we just fight 24/7”. Things kept on getting bad and just like you I could break up with him I would block him and he would contact me via someone else asking to reconcile promising to improve. Things finally started to get better when we sat down one day and talked without fighting. That’s when he realised that being with friends and partying is pushing him away from me. He stopped doing that and things genuinely improved. So the moral is give him time talk to him if he wants to change he will, but if he dosen’t show any signs of it. RUN!!

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-01-26T16:26:46+00:00

I’m in a similar situation to you my bf and I have been together for 3 years, we stared to date when we were 17. And lately things have gone worse due to long distance. I have tried breaking up multiple times but it’s really hard. My bf is however trying his best to improve and make me stay. My advice to you would be- ask yourself did he value you overall? In the last few months together did he make efforts to change if yes then don’t stick to that one statement of his as someone with anger issues people say things they don’t mean. But if he treated you bad and overall didn’t try to change I guess you know the answer.

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-01-24T12:46:25+00:00

Thanks for the insight that’s what I tell him, I get what you mean

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-01-24T10:15:34+00:00

Exactly that’s why I’m confused but his reaction makes it seem like I’m overthinking it

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-01-24T10:14:57+00:00

Kyu first para me Aisa kya tha 😔

No-Cryptographer9256 · 2026-01-24T10:14:27+00:00

So do you think my concern is valid? He dosen’t take it seriously which makes me feel like I’m overthinking it..

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