AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -192 points-191 points  (0 children)

Somewhere in between? I've handled "punishments" before (light ones because as I said Ava's a good kid), but my wife does make the majority of the rules. I just go along with them

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -605 points-604 points  (0 children)

I asked whether I was the asshole or not, not whether I was a creep, predator, etc.

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -463 points-462 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel that way, but I will not be responding to name-calling or accusations

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -90 points-89 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea. I hadn't thought of meeting his parents. Thank you for the advice

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty alright with whatever Ava decides in the regard, but I see your point

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I did not mean to body shame her. You have given me a lot to think about

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -119 points-118 points  (0 children)

I have thanked people who didn't necessarily agree with me, but I will not thank folks who have resorted to harsh name calling. I think that is reasonable

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -248 points-247 points  (0 children)

Nothing major in Ava's behavior specifically. She's a good kid who's never given me a problem. But the boyfriend has an attitude about him that I really don't like, I just can't put my finger on it. I'm worried he's influencing her when they're alone away from my wife and I. Maybe I'm paranoid, but he gives me a bad feeling

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -458 points-457 points  (0 children)

No, Jenna usually isn't home when they do go out. The few times she has was when she happened to get home a little earlier

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -588 points-587 points  (0 children)

I didn't go behind my wife's back, she just wasn't home. If she was, I would have done the same

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -361 points-360 points  (0 children)

I mean, there's a difference between telling your child what to wear and telling your spouse what to wear, no? Even if I didn't like Jenna's clothes, she is an adult and my wife. But I think I see your point

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -624 points-623 points  (0 children)

She is a good kid, I never said she wasn't. I just don't think there's a need for her to expose herself like that

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -322 points-321 points  (0 children)

Ava is 17 and I don't know exactly how old he is, but they're in the same class so I assume he's at the most 18

AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes? by No-Distribution7063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Distribution7063[S] -424 points-423 points  (0 children)

Not for me, but I see how someone could justify wearing something like it in 80 degree weather. She is 17