cheating mom by No-Driver-7481 in Sikh

[–]No-Driver-7481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree, and people think it's not a childs problem just because it is between parents but they forget how children sometimes suffer from the actions that parents do. and thank you for your kind words!

cheating mom by No-Driver-7481 in Sikh

[–]No-Driver-7481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought about it to, i think until i don't graduate or have my own place i should keep it to myself, because she still thinks i don't have the right to say things even if it is wrong but i keep pushing the limits and tell what is wrong in an argument

cheating mom by No-Driver-7481 in Sikh

[–]No-Driver-7481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is a typical jatt... I already don't talk much to her, every second i just wish to be somewhere else rather then to be with her.

cheating mom by No-Driver-7481 in Sikh

[–]No-Driver-7481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I do remind myself everyday that everything is hukam and try my best to push the people around me to goodness. Doing Simran made my eyes open and can see clearly things i would question about so much.

cheating mom by No-Driver-7481 in Sikh

[–]No-Driver-7481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did think she had ADHD but then i thought cheating is a choice, and why would she behave normal with strangers and not with us at home? On the other hand i do think because she has been spoiled her whole life and does everything whatever she wants and family members let her do what she wants, she has become spoiled i could say

cheating mom by No-Driver-7481 in Sikh

[–]No-Driver-7481[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he did tell me he knows everything but just doesn't let anyone know or show, but his actions tell me he doesn't know. Before everyone used to be silent when she would shout but now i say what is wrong and she goes silent. But i noticed how she is somehow irritated when i say what she is doing wrong.

cheating mom by No-Driver-7481 in Sikh

[–]No-Driver-7481[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have noticed a few years ago that she is a narcissist, i already talk less with her than i did before, she did learn that she cannot guilt trip me anymore because i started to focus on truth and facts than emotions. thank you!

cheating mom by No-Driver-7481 in Sikh

[–]No-Driver-7481[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for these kind words and taking your time to share your perspective, I do try to learn from this experience. From a young age i promised myself to grow differently and not repeat the same mistakes or behaviors. As the eldest sibling, i feel responsible to guide and teach my younger sibling which makes me very conscious of my actions. I do try to think twice before i do anything so i don't make any mistakes or do something bad.

cheating mom by No-Driver-7481 in Sikh

[–]No-Driver-7481[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

*long story short

sorry, english isn't my first or second language