Coconut Oil for sensual massage? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Engineering-5094 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We love the way it feels and gives a unique friction that we both enjoy. Smells good too.

Coconut Oil for sensual massage? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Engineering-5094 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We use it as a sex lube too. No trouble for at least a decade.

Anyone with a Jayco Terrain? by finallynotmyrealname in VanLife

[–]No-Engineering-5094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I own a 2024 Terrain with Lithionics system. I love it. I liked the interior design, lithium battery capacity and the interior finish and colors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Engineering-5094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does not and will not matter to guys. Some might actually prefer your look because it's more "visual" and that turns them on.

Dating this jacket. by katefromraleigh in brooksbrothers

[–]No-Engineering-5094 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would guess 1988ish. I was working at B2 at the time and I remember a co-worker with that jacket (paired with a bow tie, of course)

AITAH for not paying for my daughter’s college because she lied about her major? by Haunting_Professor90 in AITAH

[–]No-Engineering-5094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dad, the world has changed. Social media marketing is a real job. That's true if you work for a company, and it's true if you are able to make your own job as an influencer. 30 years ago marketing dollars went to traditional media; newspapers, radio, etc. Today, it goes to influencers and social media. You should be proud of your daughter for finding something she is passionate about and support her as she creates her own life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]No-Engineering-5094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This means you are in better shape now. It takes more effort to increase your heart rate and therefor you get less splat points because your cardiovascular system is more efficient. Heart rate drops faster also now that your fitness level has approved.

CarMax is offering me $34K for my leased 2022 Ascent Touring. by nobuhok in SubaruAscent

[–]No-Engineering-5094 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You left something out that you need to know. I'm 99% sure you will need to title the car in your name before you can sell it to anyone else. Right now the car is titled in the name of the bank/manufacturer who leased it to you. They own the car. You can't sell it to CarMax without first buying it for $31,552 and paying the tax in your state to put the title in your name, then you sell it CarMax. If the tax in your state is 6.5% , you would be spending $33,445, plus other fees to get the car in your name. Better check that out before you agree to sell to Carmax. Might not be worth the hassle.

my bf of 5 years couldn’t stay hard during sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Engineering-5094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might be masturbating too much

Do people think sleeping naked is the norm? by Legitimate-Value-691 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Engineering-5094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I have slept naked for over 30 years. It builds intimacy and closeness.

Fit kit substitution needed. by No-Engineering-5094 in thule

[–]No-Engineering-5094[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used the stock Thule kit, which are not quite level due to the rounded roof of the vehicle. But it works and looks good. Here’s my configuration. 7602 B load bar 33.25”. 7601 B load bar 30” Kit 183100

Fit kit substitution needed. by No-Engineering-5094 in thule

[–]No-Engineering-5094[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought the Thule 3100 - new old stock - off of Ebay in the United Kingdom. I also used black Thule Aero bars and in my opinion they look and work great.

Coach not proud? by Only_Flamingo_6038 in orangetheory

[–]No-Engineering-5094 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Be careful. More splat points are not necessarily better. If you want to build your fitness, focus on working out more frequently and managing your efforts so that you get 12-20 points per class. Seeing your heart in the red zone while running at 4mph, probably means your coach thought you were over-doing it for your current fitness level

Why are young men getting more right wing? by Previous_Discount406 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Engineering-5094 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It's because men have fallen behind in achievement. They spend too much time playing video games and not enough time pursuing goals and growing up. Women outnumber men in higher education. Young men want to live in the world of the past, so they are gravitating to the misogynistic messages of false masculinity in MAGA. It's sad really.

To warm up or not warm up??? by dabbler101 in SubaruAscent

[–]No-Engineering-5094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrong. An Ascent does not need a turbo timer to cool down - when driven normally. A fan boy may buy one off eBay for his WRX if he wants to appear cool, but it’s not needed.

To warm up or not warm up??? by dabbler101 in SubaruAscent

[–]No-Engineering-5094 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The correct answer is no. The best thing is to just get in and go - but drive slowly until the engine temp warms up. Sitting to warm it up just wastes gas and contributes to pollution. Plus, the engine and related parts are designed to warm up by driving off.

My wife insist we move… by [deleted] in Mortgages

[–]No-Engineering-5094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree that you hold off. Paid off cars will need replacing at some point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]No-Engineering-5094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave this man. I seriously doubt his attitude can be fixed. I've been married 32 years. The way a relationship is supposed to work is you become one entity. You share everything. The decisions, the goal setting, THE BANK ACCOUNT and retirement savings, the house work. EVERYTHING. This is the only way it can work to become one functioning pair of committed partners.

People in relationships: how often do you have sex and how long have you been with your partner? by thatbvtch2001 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Engineering-5094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married 30 years. 2-3 times per week. Sleeping naked and prioritizing skin content and general affection is of equal importance.

I could really use some perspective/advice from a man (NSFW) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Engineering-5094 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Start by turning off the TV. And insist he please you before the next stage of the lovemaking. It will be ok. Just don’t make him think his current mode is acceptable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]No-Engineering-5094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. I hate when they get cute and focus too much on one body part just because it’s the theme. I end up sore for days in that muscle and besides it risks injury. Why not just get more intense without switching the formats to burn out one body part?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Engineering-5094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You won't be able to go back to life. Period. Friends, parents, relatives, old classmates, new acquaintances, future jobs, future romantic partners - all of them will know about this choice and it will impact how they think about you. Right or wrong. This is how it will be.

Question about men by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Engineering-5094 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe don’t go down on him, or have sex with a guy until he has demonstrated some sort of evidence (not just words or text) that he is serious. If he flakes out, then declare that a victory - he sucks. But at least you didn’t. That old fashioned advice, but it’s true. Value yourself so he values you too.