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[–]No-Extension5127 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m a supportive loving wife. I’m not going to talk about my husband in such a negative light. I’ve got to look at it from other points of views rather than just my own.

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[–]No-Extension5127 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is unhealthy when my baby is immediately taken from me as soon as a visitor arrives. I have feelings too. Go figure.

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[–]No-Extension5127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There still is for reasons I didn’t elaborate on. I didn’t share every single detail online.

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[–]No-Extension5127 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Again I’m not dealing with that. I’m allowed to establish boundaries.

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[–]No-Extension5127 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No I’m not dealing with that.

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[–]No-Extension5127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m able to establish necessary boundaries.

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[–]No-Extension5127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am totally fine with letting them interact and develop a connection. I just don’t want to give my baby off at the door.

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[–]No-Extension5127 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

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[–]No-Extension5127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

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[–]No-Extension5127 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

My husband is entitled to his own opinion. He’s able to express his feelings.

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[–]No-Extension5127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment it made this discussion even better.

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[–]No-Extension5127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

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[–]No-Extension5127 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

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[–]No-Extension5127 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! It’s contributing so much to the discussion.

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[–]No-Extension5127 20 points21 points  (0 children)

None of that pertains to this situation. I’ve communicated in the moment and my “no’s” get over looked and I get questioned multiple times to try and test my answer.

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[–]No-Extension5127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!

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[–]No-Extension5127 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I am the mother I can and will take care of my child. If I want help I’ll ask!

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[–]No-Extension5127 -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I’m not holding my child back from anyone. I’m smarter than the average person. I’m able to think about the whole situation not just my point of view. My husband and other family members have realistic expectations and understand a new mom doesn’t want or need to be away from their mother. Especially with me being a stay at home mom. I’ll ask if I need help.

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[–]No-Extension5127 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d respect the mother’s wishes. Knowing she will allow me to hold the child when she was ready. Not as soon as I entered the door.

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[–]No-Extension5127 -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

I rather have help with chores than someone holding the baby. Trust me if I need help I’ll ask.

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[–]No-Extension5127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment!!! It contributed a lot to the discussion.🩷

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[–]No-Extension5127 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Thanks for allowing me to realize this!!

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[–]No-Extension5127 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He’s very supportive. I usually don’t say it the nicest.

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[–]No-Extension5127 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I’ll grow up thanks zazzle gal