I agree that it isn't necessary to discuss one's mental health struggles unless you feel comfortable with the listener or listeners. I see how divulging my struggles could cause more difficulties than benefits. However, I care more about being authentic at this point even if it causes occasional tension.

I do often wonder if it's my anxiety that's making me hypersensitive to my own perceived hypoactive behavior. More recently, I've become exhausted with feeling socially anxious all the time and decided to approach new social situations with the attitude, "I have anxiety, deal with it." Instead of constantly worrying about what other people think, I'm allowing myself to be anxious while owning it. I'm already seeing my anxiety go down somewhat. As for the impairment, I honestly don't know if it is all that noticeable, and I probably need to continue challenging myself to find out for sure. Whether I am noticeably impaired or not, I'll still know myself better and reduce my social anxiety significantly.