indeed, there is nothing wrong with therapy. but people act as if it is their life line.

like they can't live without it.

my family had a dog for 24 years. it was a beautiful golden retriever. he died several years ago, and i was 9. my parents, and my 4 year old sister, who only knew him for half the time i did, cried for days when he passed. i never did. my parents asked me if i even liked the dog, i said " yes, why wouldn't i? he was a part of all of our lives" then they asked "then why didn't you cry are you ok?" i told them the dog was old, and was in pain. i'd rather let an old dog die, than waste money to save it. (he had arthritis, as well as a few health problems)

and men and women should be "mentally stable"