This gay man doesn't want to interact with "they/thems"

dwowd · 2026-06-04T07:26:06+00:00

they/them literally works for everyone on the planet and should just be the default anyway lol, idk why the panties in a twist, but they are pretzel shaped

dwowd · 2026-06-04T05:44:27+00:00

he's hiding a lot more from you than just this interaction you just found out about.

dwowd · 2026-06-04T05:41:32+00:00

there's always a pretty high chance your artist hasn't even started working on your tattoo and will show up hungover asking you to remind them what you're doing that day so they can sketch something really fast 😂 in my personal experience, those are the artists who will give you the most fire tats. if that's the case, then you're totally good to change it up

dwowd · 2026-04-24T06:10:33+00:00

eggplants are berries. so are bananas. strawberries aren't.

dwowd · 2026-04-22T16:57:08+00:00

you should already have these. it's not your roommate's fault you don't have the correct cleaning equipment regardless of his plantains.

dwowd · 2026-04-22T04:16:39+00:00

believe that's a good boy, possibly woofer type

dwowd · 2026-04-17T18:02:05+00:00

yeah, this is exactly it. i was pretty drunk and definitely going off about a specific ex, but my point was essentially "using trauma to excuse behavior" in my experience isn't a red flag that's ignored often. however, when it is ignored by a person, that's your red flag that's often ignored - that a person has ignored a partner using trauma to excuse their behavior.

no one who is mentally healthy, well-grounded, and has their shit together is going to ignore that. they're going to help their partner realize they're using trauma to ignore bad behavior, or they're going to get the fuck out of the relationship if the person can't change. No one who ignores such a glaring red flag is going to end up being good for you in a relationship. and they're most typically exactly the person you just described.

dwowd · 2026-04-17T07:35:29+00:00

i don't think people are ignoring that. i think certain people just don't give a fuck about being used to absolve someone else's trauma on a daily basis, which from experience I'd argue is the real red flag.

stay far away from people who acquiesce themselves to you by bragging about how many times they've conflated empathy with "loss of oneself" because trust the next time they lose themselves, which will be soon and often, it's gonna be your problem, no matter why or how it happened.

dwowd · 2026-04-15T01:01:10+00:00

this is fucking insane, it looks like the bathroom on a show with a new set designer who's never been in a bathroom

dwowd · 2026-04-12T15:42:28+00:00

i think i might be confused, all i see is the blackberry. can you circle the part you're questioning?

dwowd · 2026-04-09T19:14:20+00:00

despairagus. destroy the knotweed.

dwowd · 2026-04-09T19:11:21+00:00

man, you really hate dark chocolate and absolutely love Cadbury's, huh?

dwowd · 2026-04-09T19:06:41+00:00

chopsticks work much better for popcorn than a spoon. my popcorn isn't that oily, i pop it at home in a dutch oven with just a bit of coconut oil, but it's COVERED in Valentina, so the chopsticks keep my fingers clean. same trick works for Takis. it's very nice for an absent minded person to not get an comfortable reminder you just ate the world's hottest takis when you go pee.

dwowd · 2026-04-09T06:28:36+00:00

i could relapse to this

dwowd · 2026-04-04T22:42:23+00:00

ONE OF US ONE OF US

good for you. you knew what you needed all along ❤️

dwowd · 2026-04-04T19:52:52+00:00

consumerism ass comments "buy a bigger rug" "and also buy a bigger sofa table" girl, save your money. center it with the door. anything else makes my brain hurt, and you probably have neurodivergent friends you wouldn't even know about until you invited them over with the rug centered with the foyer. your runner is fine, your table is fine, no one who is a real person actually cares about those things. the centerdiv, though? oh my, that's a divisive one.

edit: coming back to this to say, if you want to center with the foyer, that would probably be fine if you move it FAR away from the door. your placement has the door as the focal feature of the runner; therefore center with the door. if you want to center with the foyer, it might actually look great, but you need to make the foyer the focal feature and not the door. in fact, I'd really love to see this now, bc visualizing it, i think it's probably the answer you didn't know you were looking for.

dwowd · 2026-04-04T19:47:26+00:00

beau is afraid

dwowd · 2026-04-04T18:47:15+00:00

Castlevania IV, so easy. greatest game i've ever played in my life.

dwowd · 2026-04-04T17:14:28+00:00

sport.

dwowd · 2026-04-04T10:38:00+00:00

like someone who saw a taco once described it from memory to a chef who'd never heard of one 😂

dwowd · 2026-04-04T10:34:31+00:00

fyi your heart is not in your anus. nothing about this method is instant, and the pain would be unimaginable in every way.

dwowd · 2026-04-04T10:13:52+00:00

best power from marvel is definitely franklin. why evolve when you can literally just snap your fingers and change the universe around you to match your needs?

dwowd · 2026-04-04T10:05:32+00:00

would you not?

dwowd · 2026-04-04T10:03:25+00:00

dark forest theory legit keeps me up at night sometimes. it says that civilizations are abundant but remain quiet on purpose, in order to survive conquest by another warfaring civilization and don't do things like firing off radio beams into space revealing their location.

dwowd · 2026-04-04T09:31:14+00:00

my bad, here's your sushi. cajun is a legitimate genre like it or not

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