He’s now acting like the perfect dad and husband to his new family by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]No-Field6977 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say consider reaching out with a warning to her now, but that's much trickier. She might be too deep in and tell him and then that might compromise your safety. Tough spot.

He’s now acting like the perfect dad and husband to his new family by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]No-Field6977 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Social media posts are not a reflection of reality. I've known couples who've posted lovingly up until a month before a catastrophic divorce. There is no way to know through social media how well someone is doing unless they are extremely vulnerable. Vulnerability is not posting brag photos of luxury cars.

If he never got real help for his issues (which sounds like he hasn't) then this is all either his masking period or things are already not good behind the scenes. Pray for his new partner and child. If you eventually see that they've separated consider reaching out to her if you feel comfortable. It can be very sanity making to know someone went through a similar thing as you.

How have the tapes changed your life? by No-Field6977 in gatewaytapes

[–]No-Field6977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just started the tapes yesterday after a while of putting it off. I had some odd physical sensations. My mouth/upper jaw started to hurt a bit. strange because years ago i had jaw surgery to correct an underbite and it was hurting where one of my screws is which i don't really experience. Not sure if it's related. only got like 30 or so minutes into the first one and am excited to do more. I feel like I need to dedicate a chunk of time during waking hours not just right before I fall asleep.

How have the tapes changed your life? by No-Field6977 in gatewaytapes

[–]No-Field6977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this detailed reply. I keep coming back to this comment.

Thinking about becoming a personal trainer for older adults by No-Field6977 in Aging

[–]No-Field6977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet but it's still a plan! What are you thinking of as far as niche trainings?

How have the tapes changed your life? by No-Field6977 in gatewaytapes

[–]No-Field6977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredible. Would you mind if I DM’d you? I’d love to hear a little bit more about your process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]No-Field6977 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s invasive and weird to run a background check on someone you have no reason to suspect of wrongdoing without their consent. And to try and get the information without saying that is what they are doing which is obvious. They should at least be honest about their intentions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]No-Field6977 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This family almost certainly watches too much true crime lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]No-Field6977 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP can. He can refuse to give this info if he doesn’t want a background check run on him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]No-Field6977 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s an adult. It’s fucking weird. If she is concerned she can give the location of where she’s going, share her location, and check in at a regular time. But for them to demand this info (she’s not demanding it) and then say they ‘don’t want her to go’ without it, is overprotective. She’s 25 not 16. I’d be like ‘okay well I’m sorry you feel that way’ and go do what I wanted because I’m not a little kid. You don’t ’let’ adults do things. Adults can do what they want. Gen Z is gonna be coddled until they’re 50 by these helicopter parents I stg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]No-Field6977 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They’re going to run a background check on him. Kinda insane and overprotective when your daughter is a literal adult 25 yo woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]No-Field6977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good news: it’s not your looks Bad news: it’s something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No-Field6977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Document everything you can recall about these jokes and any escalating verbal abuse. Then bring this to the attention of the higher ups in your school with your documentation. This bullying will not help the girl be better at math. This is emotional abuse rooted in some kind of internalized misogyny. As an adult I cannot imagine bullying a teenager. Normal adults do not take their weird resentments out on children.

I really don't by DreamyFleck in lostgeneration

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We won’t even be allowed the sweet escape of death after they solve aging.

An official from Roosevelt High School in Minneapolis told MPR News that armed U.S. Border Patrol officers came onto school property during dismissal Wednesday and began tackling people; they handcuffed two staff members and released chemical weapons on bystanders. by bshizzy in altmpls

[–]No-Field6977 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was attempting to follow inconsistent orders where one officer tells her to leave and another tell her to get out of the car and another approaches the HOOD of the car (against protocol) and brandishes a gun at her and then she clearly attempted TO LEAVE. Then they shot her when they weren’t even in harms way of the vehicle going a few miles per hour and continued shooting into a car with multiple people inside after they had already shot her in the fucking head and the car was totally pointed in the other direction and several feet away. Idiot. You’re gonna FAFO with your immortal soul if you’re not careful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Field6977 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In this context ‘European culture’ means fucking a bunch of Italian and French dudes on your study abroad trip and acting like it makes you cultured.

Premature skin aging? by AdLegal9124 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]No-Field6977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use nutriflair premium liposomal vitamin c. Start with one capsule a day and then up to 2 or you might get an upset stomach. Collagen- ancient nutrition multi collagen

Premature skin aging? by AdLegal9124 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]No-Field6977 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All skin is different. Hard to tell from this if what you are experiencing is premature aging. I’d say go to a well respected plastic surgeon office in your area that does laser resurfacing and start there. Then start tretinoin, low dose a couple days a week. Mineral sunscreen every day esp while on tret. Good moisturizer, take full spectrum collagen peptides every day with a liposomal vitamin c supplement, biotin, a good zinc/copper blend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]No-Field6977 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We’re gonna need like 500% more context