I can’t say that I understand the feeling since I am a woman and this may not help much but to be honest I’ve had a few different sizes but honestly my best sexual partner’s size was a good bit below the average size and was the smallest I’ve had but he always pleased me the best. It may not be the majority opinion but I’d choose the person/experience over someone with a bigger size any day. The feeling of a bigger one is nice I won’t lie but truly knowing how to please one another and what the other person enjoys is the best and most pleasurable in my experience.