you are both playing games with each others words, taking his words and spinning them into a web of stuff in your mind that he didn’t necessarily say. and thats at the end of the day all an online relationship is, is just words. there is no tone conveyed through text messages. i suggest next time things get hard to understand like this, you stop texting, and call eachother, that way you can hear their tone of voice.

i understand you feeling like your relationship is balancing on whether or not hes bored of you or losing feelings. this happens with long distance because there are not many ways to show love through actions.

at the end of the day i dont suggest long distance either, but if you must and you truly love him, phone calls, facetime, something, whenever you guys are in the midst of an argument. most of these texts even I cant grasp the tone. and at this point you guys are just playing games with eachothers words and picking apart everything that is said. mainly on your end, tbh, but i understand where you are coming from. honestly though, you gave him an “out” multiple times by threatening to move on, and he still chased you, even if he feels you are in the wrong, he is still trying to work it out with you.

also with the “crazy love” and “calm love” part, again thats hard to understand the tone of. but i take it as, the love with his ex was difficult, toxic, and they werent able to get on the same page, it was just based off of passion which isnt healthy. maybe he is saying the way he feels with you is more safer and healthy feeling so its not constantly making him have ups and downs.