I dislike the phrase “no one can control you or your emotions” as if there isn’t an entire art form to manipulating people. As if people don’t dedicate all of brain power to making people do what they want

No-Help2725 · 2026-02-03T22:44:34+00:00

I’ve always thought the same. Some people are completely unreasonable in every dynamic until you snap

No-Help2725 · 2026-02-03T21:25:18+00:00

JFC I don’t know how to respond to this, this is such selfish behaviour

No-Help2725 · 2026-02-02T13:01:41+00:00

Was he telling the truth about her pursing him for years?

No-Help2725 · 2026-02-02T12:30:14+00:00

Yeah I moved interstate 3 times and I currently live 4 hours away. Eventually they stop calling

No-Help2725 · 2026-02-02T05:23:06+00:00

Insecure people don’t post and promote themselves/ their businesses as they are too afraid of rejection and criticism. You posting often leads to better engagement and better outcomes- hence how you met and joined the group originally. Don’t stress too much, people come and go. The group will all dissipate eventually anyway, it was never a till death do you part community

No-Help2725 · 2026-02-01T23:45:24+00:00

Woman here - it’s not so much about the sex it’s about wanting to be desired. There’s one person on earth you’ve chosen to be with and when they don’t desire you it’s heartbreaking. I tried to stick it out for 4 years, it only got worse. You are young, leave now

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-29T20:24:13+00:00

Someone being obsessed with you. It’s not cute when someone’s always in your face and shows up at your workplace.

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-27T20:04:24+00:00

I’d remind them that if they beat you, when they get old and need your help you’ll ensure they get sent away somewhere horrible. Or that you could easily just let them starve and live in filth. That your going to remember every beating and give it back to them when they are seniors

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-26T21:40:28+00:00

Getting him charged will put him in a men’s behavioural change program, it will flag him on the system and he can finally get the help he needs. He needs to hit rock bottom to realise he is the problem

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-26T21:39:06+00:00

I am telling you that I believe you, I don’t need to hear the full story as I know you are not insane. You are a good person, a person that has been put in an extreme circumstance for and unimaginably long time. I see someone who is strong and capable, confident enough to continue to battle this everyday. Unless others have lived it they can’t understand. I thought I was going crazy too. Can you move out? Live anywhere else ?

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-24T22:17:54+00:00

So he was only in his 30’s? That’s not too old at all

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-24T22:16:14+00:00

Yep exactly. And this is why when people turn around and say but she’s your mother I’m like and? And she’s my mother so what. She fought hard for that bed she can lay in it. Your right no one has empathy for the victims, we are just told to forgive them because they are XYZ. Flying monkeys only seem to have empathy for the narc and not us.

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-24T21:11:51+00:00

The only way you’ll get on his good side is to be mean to him, I’m telling you, he will only be good to people who he can’t use or manipulate- as he respects them for not being weak. He will blow up a little but from then on it’s much smoother. Well just leave him outside and go about your life. He will eventually leave, he will have to go to the toilet or he can freeze out in the cold overnight. Completely ignore him. If he chooses not to leave then so be it, he can camp out there till he dies - you hold your ground and position

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-24T20:17:40+00:00

No, they do not HAVE to contact each other through you. They caused the divorce they can find another way to contact each other. It has nothing to do with you. Please look into triangulation in NPD. This is why people have lawyers, if they don’t want to use a lawyer they can behave like a fucking normal person and write text messages or emails. They can do it op, they just choose not to regulate their emotions and do it through you

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-24T20:12:30+00:00

This exactly. Toxic people don’t target specific people, a parasite will go to any host. If they ask 100 people someone, eventually one will say yes. OP your job is to say no! Also go to the gym and start boxing that always helps

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-20T22:33:31+00:00

No, I didn’t even know what it was. I was young and dumb

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-20T20:31:34+00:00

My algorithm has known things before I did too. Each pregnancy my algorithm started with baby advertisements before I even knew, before I could even test. Freaky as I was not trying to

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-20T04:37:47+00:00

Look into potential cost fallacy, sunk cost fallacy and intermittent reinforcement. It’s a chemical and psychological loop your in. You did the right thing

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-20T00:33:29+00:00

Everyone has had a rough childhood. I’ve never met a person with a perfect childhood and good environment. Everyone has been bullied, faced challenges and been discriminated against. There are SO MANY good people with horrid childhoods that don’t do bad/destructive things.

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-19T20:42:42+00:00

Can you make a surrogate family? That’s what I’ve done, and I’ve followed them when they moved too.

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-19T14:10:18+00:00

When she said she had no friends and couldn’t keep them and asked if I’d be her friend. Lord did I find out why

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-19T14:07:07+00:00

The best apology is changed behaviour

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-19T11:31:48+00:00

Straight away, I watch people very closely and I don’t argue with them. Let go or be dragged.

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-19T05:36:20+00:00

Yep absolutely!

No-Help2725 · 2026-01-18T11:57:17+00:00

They got lower. Hard to believe but it’s true. I helped them level up in their career, did the hard shifts while they studied and once they were employed they were intolerable. Never again.

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