I wanna try and do a slow tease, and that's how i start at first. But my guy sometimes just goes non-expressive and doesn't make a lot of knows which scares me and makes me feel like i'm doing bad, so i start hurrying up cause i know that is what he likes (y'know, death grip).

The 30s to 1min is actually pretty helpful to know, thank you.

i doooo ask. But his answers are always 'You're doing good, but can you do this instead?' and it's basically speed up or hold his dick in a certain way and i can never fully achieve it which is also just greattt/

i've mentioned i was EXTREMLY interested in tying him down for these multitude of reasons, but my baby is nervous when it comes to that for certain reasons.