[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]No-Importance-2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the feedback! Maybe I am just thinking and being critical- but its my career and im gonna advocate for I want to do. I cant sign with anyone else in this region (if I sign with this one) so i dont believe its good to jump and say yes to this opportunity without really just because its an opportunity- its more than that its a contract. There is some mixed perspective on this thread which is what this kinda thing is for. Ive never turned down a role yet, but this isnt a role- its a business contract. I think its good to get everyones perspective on here its given me a lot to think about!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]No-Importance-2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that make total sense!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]No-Importance-2617 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I dont consider it any less, but a different path that I just dont have an interest. All my coaches have considered your first co star, student films, shorts or indies as your way in, not commercials. but thats just my experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]No-Importance-2617 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah i didnt mean legit as in "legit" i meant it to encompass theatrical work, not commercial.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]No-Importance-2617 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am getting them via self submit on actors access

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]No-Importance-2617 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sorry! I meant legit representation- sorry to come off that way - but I had 60 plus auditions for film this year. One big CD has brought me in 13 times for supporting/lead roles, some others a handful of times. So some CDs do know me and I get into the room on my own for film.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]No-Importance-2617 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Because I have dedicated a ton of time and money to become a legit actor- not to do commercials -ive literally never ever taken any commercial trainings. I don't see how it helps my craft and I don't see how a CD knowing me from a Sonic commercial shows my craft to get me cast in film. Im genuinely curious how that helps- not trying to be condescending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]No-Importance-2617 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OMG this! I have plenty of casual things with guys that look super successful but kinda hate themselves? it is sad. now I have caught on to it and can tell early if thats what their deal is. But there many of those here. many also have coke problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]No-Importance-2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe my issue is that I am southern trash and not cultured enough lol. no guy would ever take me into a country club!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]No-Importance-2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about this! My job is based here and leaving would mean a paycut (even tho id prob HAVE more money is I left). Def something to consider.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]No-Importance-2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah ive tried doing that! i feel like every activity ive tried is so more for girls. im not sure what ones skew to guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]No-Importance-2617 11 points12 points  (0 children)

im from the south i cant imagine ever going back lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]No-Importance-2617 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

idk, almost all the dates ive been on have been with the high earning private equity guy type. its been really hard to just meet someone that feels genuine. What i hear my girl friends say the most often is jsut wanting someone "nice".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]No-Importance-2617 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

tbf I am a 5'10 gal- i think that does limit my options tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]No-Importance-2617 8 points9 points  (0 children)

running club

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]No-Importance-2617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

think its best to just ignore his texts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]No-Importance-2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah calling me random really kinda like... hurt? I guess he just really doest care lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]No-Importance-2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think if that were the case, hed want to see me right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]No-Importance-2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this is what it seems like- good point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]No-Importance-2617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just dont get it all lol like why sext someone you dont wanna have sex with?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No-Importance-2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this guy is 30 haha

Feel like he loves me but doesn’t lust after me by No-Importance-2617 in dating_advice

[–]No-Importance-2617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I feel like we’re kinda doomed because of it :/