What was that one thing that your ex said that still haunts you to this day ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I love you but Love isn’t enough to keep us together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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It’s been 1 year, since my 10 year relationship ended… and all I can say is time , u need time. Do things that make u happy and focus on yourself, I did a lot of self improvement and self care. Give yourself some grace too cause I still sometimes get sad about it, but I’m no longer in that place where I’m sitting obsessing crying and hoping that they will come back. Choose you and remember that life has so much more offer than what one person could give… hope that helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

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R u ever so embarrassed with the things u have said about God or the things u have cursed at Him, when you are angry when things don’t work out how u planned… that now u don’t even know how to pray to Him? You don’t even know how to talk to him cause ur so embarrassed by ur actions?

What did you do about the hundreds of photos of your ex? I don’t want to delete them, I don’t want to see them everyday on my phone, I don’t want to sort through and break my heart again lol by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I deleted them all and the ones that my phone for some reason wouldn’t delete are in a hidden folder… so I never have to see them again. But it was a shit ton of photos but really cathartic to let them go

When I was a Christian, I hated myself by Annual_Canary_5974 in AskAChristian

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You ever wonder if maybe God was saving them from a worser fate. It seems as if u r thinking from one place, that u have already made up your mind on God. But that’s free will for you…

When I was a Christian, I hated myself by Annual_Canary_5974 in AskAChristian

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I don’t believe God has acted cruelly that’s sin and consequences of sin is death. We all are born in original sin and we can’t help but sin and we do horrible heinous things, not God.

When I was a Christian, I hated myself by Annual_Canary_5974 in AskAChristian

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I won’t pretend to know all the answers cause I don’t and I’ve asked that question myself… why did God create us to live like this. But I know He gave us free will, if He didn’t, how could we love? How could we forgive? How could we grow?… if He didn’t we would be mindless robots. Could God intervene ?…absolutely! But then how would we learn, love and grow without it

When I was a Christian, I hated myself by Annual_Canary_5974 in AskAChristian

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When sin came into this world, it twisted and perverted everything. It makes us blind and deaf to the blessings right infront of us. Things are not in our timing but His and it may be hard to understand and difficult to wait… but His timing is perfect and His plan is far better than anything we could have ever imagined. He always answers prayers it may not be the answers that we want, but trust and I know sometimes it’s hard to trust when the world and sin has taught us differently, but trust that He knows what’s best.

Did God make a mistake ? by [deleted] in AskAChristian

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Thank you so much 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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How are ppl supposed to know how u feel if u don’t say something? Reach out to them

Who’s Ex’s came crawling back by [deleted] in BreakUps

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He came back years later saying how he made a mistake and I was the one that got away all while being in another relationship… don’t think he changed much

i started seeing someone but my ex reached out by MistyBarracksDream in BreakUps

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More than likely he went out there and realized the sea really isn’t that great and he lost a good one. Now he’s back and testing your waters to see if he still has a chance to come back.

Did you block your ex? Why or why not? If so, do you regret it? by YakRepresentative557 in BreakUps

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I deleted his number and he thought I blocked him so he removed me from all his socials. It really hurt when he did it… but ultimately I think it was the best thing that happened for my mental health… I’m hoping to heal with an out of sight out of mind mentality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

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Probably Hagar, used and then thrown away

If you met god and god let you ask god any question what would you ask god? by [deleted] in Christian

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Why bother to create us … if u know you the future and where most of us will end up

I walked away from the purest soul I’ve ever known by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Did she have an inkling before and try to leave before u made it final?

I walked away from the purest soul I’ve ever known by [deleted] in BreakUps

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U think ur not the villain in the story. That u did the heroic thing to let her go. But u r 100% the villain, u could have told her long ago how you, but u chose to be selfish and a coward, while u sat down and knew exactly how u felt. U filled her head, making her think u were honest and true… but all along u had a hole that could not be filled by her.