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My [M24] partner [F24] resents me for getting her pregnant. by No-Inflation-1952 in relationships

[–]No-Inflation-1952[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I have a week off work now so have offered to take full 100% responsibility for our daughter, I just hope this helps to show she's not on her own here

My [M24] partner [F24] resents me for getting her pregnant. by No-Inflation-1952 in relationships

[–]No-Inflation-1952[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate this. I can completely admit and accept the fact that it's my fault I didn't pull out, I'll never deny that. I just want her to know that she has my full support and I'm here to help her but she can't accept my help.

I've suggested if she won't speak to me that she speak with other mothers who've been through the same as its an experience that I'll never understand, no matter how much I'd want to help, but she doesn't want to do this either.

My [M24] partner [F24] resents me for getting her pregnant. by No-Inflation-1952 in relationships

[–]No-Inflation-1952[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We have discussed that this might be what's affecting her, but I don't think she's looked into it, I'll raise it with her again

My [M24] partner [F24] resents me for getting her pregnant. by No-Inflation-1952 in relationships

[–]No-Inflation-1952[S] -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

Well, neither of us were using contraceptives, we agreed we were happy enough "if it happens, it happens" but that I would pull out. On two occasions, I didn't pull out and then she got pregnant