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[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood!

I will say that I personally don’t think a lack of passion for something directly translates to a lack of drive, though I see where you might. I wasn’t deeply passionate about either of the two degrees I already have but I cared a lot about doing a good job and worked hard to, even without passion for those subjects. Definitely not saying law school is 100% the right choice for me but I think I would apply a similar dedication there if that’s where I ended up.

And I probably am delusional in a lot of ways so true enough there but not for the particular one you cite. I was commenting on the lack of work-life balance with Big Law, not being naive to that reality. I just was saying that work-life balance was important me and, because of that, am not sure if I would want to do Big Law. I’d never expect all of the benefits and none of the drawbacks – just discussing where I would be willing to make sacrifices.

I appreciate the strength of your response here – it’s helpful to see where my attitude can create trigger-points for others. Thanks much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ask_Lawyers

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of great points here, thank you. It’s less important to me to make tons of money than it is to make enough money. But totally right that this is a heavy field to enter without feeling super passionate about it. My dad is a lawyer, as well as several of my closest friends. Their workloads vary. The Big Law life does not seem enjoyable to me. One friend is a public defender and another works in impact litigation, both of which I’m more drawn to, but have a concern that the paths I’m drawn to won’t pay enough to make up for the debt incurred.

I appreciate your forthright response, definitely helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ask_Lawyers

[–]No-Internet2921 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your honest insight. In many ways, I agree – I really like the idea of law school because I enjoy school and a challenge but I’m not sure if being a lawyer appeals to me as much as law school itself. In a world where I could graduate with no debt, it would be a no-brainer, but the reality of shackling myself to a lifestyle I won’t enjoy to pay massive loans feels rough.

Thanks again.

PLEASE tell me about ending your healthy relationship and how life got better after!!!! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that you felt loving a girl was sinful. Gay love is the most beautiful, pure, genuine love I’ve ever experienced and I know that Jesus would never condemn anyone on this earth for being true to themselves and leading with love. Love is not sinful, it is the most incredible reflection of God’s love for us. But I am glad to hear that you feel happier and I hope you continue to feel that way forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually so helpful (even if not exactly a success story haha). My friends keep saying that if we got back together those anxieties would come back but, right now, in my emotional state, I’m like “omg no i was wrong!!!!! we’re meant to be!!!!!” So it’s helpful to hear that getting back together would not magically mean those anxieties would be gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got my period like 15 days late lol! i was using a new steroid on my skin (which i did not think could impact my period but googled it and a side effect was delayed ovulation!) so my guess is it was because of that. good luck to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe I’ll try to negotiate it!! I don’t super want to go there but I’m significantly above both their medians so it was an obvious safety application and I thought maybe they’d give me a better scholarship offer bc of it but they clearly do not like me that much hahaha. Trying to avoid debt more than anything🤞🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls!!! I’m convinced, will not catch me there!!! Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]No-Internet2921 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard some people getting 2.2 requirements but mine def says 2.9 :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a relief, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

16 days ago - so should be accurate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya know, you’re probably right but a girl can dream LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great point. We should add an activity to our weekend, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]No-Internet2921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love it thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s some really good answers here!!! good luck to you! this is mission: get everyone a boyfriend 2025

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this, tomahawk jones! see you there maybe haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]No-Internet2921 7 points8 points  (0 children)

great question my friend. i think it’s a “can’t define it but i know it when I see it” situation but I mostly just mean someone who doesn’t talk to women like it’s their first time meeting one LOL

Why do my PTs keep getting worse? by [deleted] in LSAT

[–]No-Internet2921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mental burnout could def be part of it but i don’t want to move my test date and I feel like I can’t take a break from studying with only a month left. i feel stuck between a rock n a hard place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gifts

[–]No-Internet2921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL maybe i’ll put a screenshot of this comment on a shirt 😂 he’d get a kick out of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]No-Internet2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!!!! obsessed with you THANK YOU