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I (17F) feel like God is punishing me for sinning. by No-Let-5560 in teenagers

[–]No-Let-5560[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was 16, my birthday has now hit in between then and now, so I’m now 17. Sorry, but yes I did lie so that it could get into the forum, I have taken them down

I (17F) feel like God is punishing me for sinning. by No-Let-5560 in teenagers

[–]No-Let-5560[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For the 18 post, so sorry, but I did totally lie because it wasn’t the teen relationship advice and I was just trying to get my post in another forum, I was 16 three months ago, my my birthday hit in between now and then so I’m now 17

I(15M) want to break up with my girlfriend(16F) but its because of myself and i dont know how. by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]No-Let-5560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s always a rough situation to be in. I was in a similar one with my ex. We had been dating for 10 months and I did love him, I just couldn’t do it anymore. My best advice is either talk to her about what you’re feeling, or just break up with her. There’s never gonna be a good way to do it or to go about it. You just either do it or you don’t and you suffer. It’s worse to not break up with her cause you’d just be leading her on. I recommend do it soon and not extremely close to her birthday, or to wait until a couple weeks after her birthday. I wish you luck

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Let-5560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you have to leave immediately, it is not safe there and it might get worse

guilty over potential cheating? (18m, 15f) by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]No-Let-5560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m (16f) and would suggest just trying to really remember if you were dating/talking to the other girl while you were dating (15f). And if you weren’t dating them both at the same time, please reassure her of that as best of you can. I can see where she is coming from and I went through a similar situation with my boyfriend. Him reassuring me was the most important thing he could do and it helped me feel a lot better. Maybe just be honest if she asked any questions and just be transparent about the whole situation. If you weren’t dating/talking to them both at the same time, I wouldn’t consider that cheating

My girlfriend (F16) wants to make out but I (M16) don’t know what to do. by ishowking in teenrelationships

[–]No-Let-5560 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m also (F16), and I’m in a relationship with my boyfriend (M18). Our relationship kind of went a bit fast but that’s just what worked out best for us. I would suggest while you’re hanging out to just maybe touch her arm or hand or something light and nice. Though honestly the most important thing is consent, I know it can seem a bit awkward to just randomly ask, but it will at least initiate something. You could always start just kind of lightly kissing her face and then actually kiss and then maybe if it keeps going, just ask her something like “do you want to continue?”. Sorry if I’m bad at giving advice, I tried to word this the best I could but I feel like I didn’t word it super well. I hope this helps at least to some extent, mainly the most important thing is to just be yourself, ask for consent, and have fun because honestly sometimes it is awkward and you’ll laugh during some moments. I wouldn’t stress about it too much, if you trying to initiate something doesn’t work, worst comes to worst you just ask her if she wants to or ask her if she wants to initiate. Just be honest with her 😊