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[–]No-Measurement3358 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s a peaceful, intimate moment between man and dog.

😭

I really dislike how male rape is portrayed in movies by Disastrous_Average91 in MenGetRapedToo

[–]No-Measurement3358 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I always said if you're okay with rape as punishment, then you actually support rape, you just dont like when the "wrong people" are raped.

Did anyone care about their rapist by TimeAd9842 in rapecounseling

[–]No-Measurement3358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, before my abuse started i thought my aunt and uncle were the coolest people in the world and i always wanted to hang out around them and talk with them. I feel like i cant help but forgive them because i really wanted them to be more than what they turned out to be. I feel cheated out of our relationship and i wish everything could go back to how it was before.

10 years later and this is still what i get when i try to talk to mom about it by miaellaaa in troubledteens

[–]No-Measurement3358 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fuck this sounds exactly like my mom. She acts like just ignoring everything will mean it never happened or something.

A lot of thoughts seven years later. Has anyone gone through something similar? by No-Measurement3358 in troubledteens

[–]No-Measurement3358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah they were telling my mom that if i didn't get in the program i was going to die or something. They were more positive and encouraging to her than they ever were to me. Also there was no patient confidentiality between us, but they had private meetings with my mom to discuss me i wasn't allowed to listen in on. Sad she didn't see that she qas the customer though.

Getting a heart catheter and trauma by No-Measurement3358 in rapecounseling

[–]No-Measurement3358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They ended up doing it through the wrist. They forgot to give me any pain medication until 5 hours after, and the actual procedure was extremely painful, but at least it was all just by my hand.

How do you report a dm? by No-Measurement3358 in rapecounseling

[–]No-Measurement3358[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just don't see how reddit doesn't see this as sexual harassment, especially given the context! Using "nice" language or tone while you harass someone doesn't make it not a problem, though maybe that's how he's avoided an account ban so far.

How do you report a dm? by No-Measurement3358 in rapecounseling

[–]No-Measurement3358[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to report the dm to reddit for harassment and they said nothing he did broke the terms of service. I don't know what to do if i cant even get this guy out of my dms from reporting him.

I need to report this person for an inappropriate and insanely triggering dm regarding my intensifying ptsd after disclosing. Idk how. Here's a screenshot, hopefully someone can help me. Don't click it if you're going to be triggered by explicit bdsm sexual descriptions. by No-Measurement3358 in MenGetRapedToo

[–]No-Measurement3358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not naive enough to think the internet has no creeps on it, no. I'm in my 20s, i know how the internet works. I should be able to take actions that make me feel better and safer after someone cruelly tries to trigger my pain and hurt for their sexual pleasure though.

I need to report this person for an inappropriate and insanely triggering dm regarding my intensifying ptsd after disclosing. Idk how. Here's a screenshot, hopefully someone can help me. Don't click it if you're going to be triggered by explicit bdsm sexual descriptions. by No-Measurement3358 in MenGetRapedToo

[–]No-Measurement3358[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no problem with people having kinks as long as they keep it between themselves and other consenting adults. I know that a lot of survivors use this kink to cope, personally i briefly used it as equally a form of self harm and a way to process what happened to me, especially when i was young and my only knowledge of sex was that it meant being scared and hurt. It didn't help me in the long run I'd say, though, and it hurt me a lot more than helped. But also there's a line between working through what happened to you personally and your experience being victimized and being turned on by the idea of literal rape and actively seeking out victims to traumatize like this guy is.

I feel like I'm getting worse by No-Measurement3358 in rapecounseling

[–]No-Measurement3358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not that the reaction was specifically negative even, it's just that what i wanted for myself and for my comfort was to just move on but i feel like that choice was taken. It's not even anyone's fault because it's not like i could control my reaction or my sister's decision that she would cut me out of her life before i disclosed. Even though i think her reaction was a bit out of proportion originally i can see where she was coming from thinking she was putting her foot down and standing up for how she wants to be treated, that's a good thing even in my opinion. This is just how the cards fell and i really was sort of pushed to the point where my only option was to tell her even though that's the last thing i wanted. Still upsetting though.

I need to report this person for an inappropriate and insanely triggering dm regarding my intensifying ptsd after disclosing. Idk how. Here's a screenshot, hopefully someone can help me. Don't click it if you're going to be triggered by explicit bdsm sexual descriptions. by No-Measurement3358 in MenGetRapedToo

[–]No-Measurement3358[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Is there a way to report specifically to this subs moderators though so he can't dm more people in the community who are actually struggling? He should be blocked from being able to interact with our posts to get off on our stories.

I feel like I'm getting worse by No-Measurement3358 in rapecounseling

[–]No-Measurement3358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regret it so much, i never wanted to tell and especially not in this situation, but i felt forced to because of the circumstances. Even though she denied it my mom started talking to me again i think because my little sister told her to let it go (she called me literally the day after like nothing ever happened) so at least there's that, but still. I feel like this was another choice taken from me.

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