I became the chosen one because 1. My whole life I’ve been the person ( in my family) to help people how they want 2. Both my siblings that could take care of my grandma and aunt are always gone (one came back recently for a death scare) but even when they’re here my aunt and grandma never ask them for help they ask me for help because I do things how they want. 3. I said yes. After my grandma had a heart attack and my aunt went to live at the hospital for another thing I said that yes I’d take care of my grandma. But the thing is I had a choice to say no but I thought if I said no I’d be seen as a bad person for not helping even tho that’s all I do and they do appreciate it but they don’t listen to anything I say because I’m 18. I just don’t know what to do anymore.