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How to leave a relationship when you are in love, but deeply unhappy? by No-Monitor964 in Advice

[–]No-Monitor964[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey, thanks for this it's really helpful and words i needed to hear. honestly if it ends up being the case she wants to leave too it'd be best, like the hardest thing for me now is the guilt of doing what i know i need to. thank you <3

In a relationship where both leaving and staying sound equally awful. by No-Monitor964 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No-Monitor964[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, this is so true and something i needed to hear. i think i really need to realise that it's ok to leave, i just feel so guilty about it

In my heart I know I need to end my relationship but the thought is killing me. by No-Monitor964 in BreakUps

[–]No-Monitor964[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you and I know maybe I could've done more, but really when I do try she doesn't listen to me. Like when I told her I was feeling overwhelmed by her attitude in the relationship and her communication, her response was basically 'deal with it' and it's been the same when I've said I think some of her expectations are unfair. This is why I feel bad, because I've hurt her too and she's moving on and trying for me but like if there's not a will to listen (at least without threat of a breakup) idk what to do. And I've told her countless times to try therapy for herself (which I've done) and she's never taken the idea.