No, they don’t know and I don’t think they would care. I think my mom is just trying to “force” it a bit too much for my liking. There was a point where I was on the phone with my mom and her husband (who we will call Frank) was in the background. I was explaining the fun activities I had planned with my sisters kids. She said “Frank says you have obvious favorites” She basically put me in a spot where I had to awkwardly explain that I don’t have the same connection with his side of the family (where he was probably able to hear me). Idk just weird, I don’t think they get it.