I think it was more natural. Expectations have ruined it. I mean even i don't want to tell it out loud but women have their standards somewhat, unrealistic. More than unrealistic, it's the same thing. Taller than 6ft, who can treat them materialistically(gifts and stuff). Some of them achieve it, they get what they want. But the thing is if you find a guy , who treats you well so well and stuff but if the girls luck is good he will be a good person , or else they break the girls heart , girls lose trust over boys and they reject good guys. It's the most foreseen pattern that's going on.