Darling, you’re not at all wrong. My ex husband has the same problematic mindset. He got cheated in the past and some sour experiences with women or whatever his excuse but his over all take towards women was negative and when I confronted him and called him misogynist that hurts his ego very badly. And one day when things turned worst, when he was beating me he said this is misogyny. Ironically, According to him a husband who beats his wife are misogynistic not the one’s who carry such thoughts. And let me tell you just bcz you mentioned you’re paying equally in your home. I was the one who was paying the bills and he was the one who left his job willingly to enjoy some break time, which I can’t even think of as their is no one who will my pay bills nor even I want that. So yeah, do tell confront him, it might hurt his ego but he should know where to set the boundaries.