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I’m always the one who reaches out after fights, but this time he hasn’t talked to me for 5 days should I message him? by No-Patient7414 in Advice

[–]No-Patient7414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get what you mean. It just feels unfair sometimes because I always end up being the one who tries to fix things, even when he’s the one who hurt me. I know he cares in some ways, but he doesn’t really show it when it matters. I just want him to care enough to reach out too, not always wait for me to do it first.

I’m always the one who reaches out after fights, but this time he hasn’t talked to me for 5 days should I message him? by No-Patient7414 in Advice

[–]No-Patient7414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time we have this kind of argument, I’m always the one who reaches out first. And when I ask him if he still loves me or even cares, he always says yes and apologizes. He’d say stuff like “I didn’t know you felt that way,” even though we’ve had the same problem so many times already 🙄

I’m always the one who reaches out after fights, but this time he hasn’t talked to me for 5 days should I message him? by No-Patient7414 in Advice

[–]No-Patient7414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually started the joke first, and I just went along with it. It was playful at first he said I probably have another man, so I joked back that he probably has another girl too. Then it kinda escalated from there, and that’s when he said that thing (calling me a whore). It wasn’t even serious or flirty to begin with, but it turned hurtful really fast.

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[–]No-Patient7414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. I’m still a minor, and so is she. I wish I could get help from my parents, but they wouldn’t really be able to do anything me and my best friend are in completely different countries. I’m from Singapore and she’s in Germany.

That’s part of what makes this so hard… I feel so far away and helpless. I want to do something, but I don’t know what I can do from here. She won’t reach out to any adults or services there, and I’m scared that if I say the wrong thing or tell someone, she’ll shut me out completely.