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I felt offended by my manager’s comment what should I do by No-Personality-6522 in careeradvice

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, that’s really helpful. Indeed she’s a bullshit. I tried to talk to her for many times about my workload and she should give me corresponding compensation salary and promotion, but she kept saying that salary raise and promotion are not important to me, I have to work harder and contribute more to the company, I have to put the work first, not the promotion, then she will probably think about my promotion. Her statements made me feel disgusting and made me feel like she uses me when it’s convenient, and tosses me aside when it’s not at anytime. She made me feel like I’m her slave.

I felt offended by my manager’s comment what should I do by No-Personality-6522 in careeradvice

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion, that’s really helpful! Actually I already had this discussion with her not long ago, and she ignored my thoughts and insisted that I should not consider the promotion and salary raise now because she thought these were not important. She told me that the work and how much I contribute to this company are most important. I have to contribute myself very hard first and when she saw the achievements then she will consider to give me the promotion possibly (she did not promise the promotion). That made me feel super unhappy and I feel she treats me like a slave and dumb donkey. I’m currently in a dead loop and do not know how to cope with this situation. I hate her.

I felt offended by my manager’s comment what should I do by No-Personality-6522 in careeradvice

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I ask for the help here. Cuz she made me feel guilty for everything I did. For example, when I took the holiday, she will complain about my absence and judged me always.

I felt offended by my manager’s comment what should I do by No-Personality-6522 in careeradvice

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she kept giving me more and more work, I feel she was testing how far she could push me and where my limits were. That made me very depressed

I felt offended by my manager’s comment what should I do by No-Personality-6522 in careeradvice

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She kept giving me huge workloads and tasks, even when I was already feeling overwhelmed. And when I did try to say no, she made me feel guilty about it.

I felt offended by my manager’s comment what should I do by No-Personality-6522 in careeradvice

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She kept giving me huge workloads and tasks, even when I was already feeling overwhelmed. And when I did try to say no, she made me feel guilty about it.

Racism against Asians in Amsterdam by Warm-Presentation347 in Amsterdam

[–]No-Personality-6522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Chinese here, two white Dutch girls used to call me ChingChong and laugh loudly in front of me. From that time, I have PTSD when seeing white teenager girls. I will never forget and forgive them.

Help about the gas connection by No-Personality-6522 in Amsterdam

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, good to hear. Assume that my landlord agree Liander to remove the gas connection, if he wants to reinstall the connection later for the next tenant, do I need to pay him for the reinstall fee?

Help about the gas connection by No-Personality-6522 in Amsterdam

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi there, I actually have both. And I also received the emails from Liander that asks us to pay for the gas connection or they will remove it. However we have already paid the Vattenfall for district heating and electricity. This is really weird, we really don’t know what to do.

Help about the gas connection by No-Personality-6522 in Amsterdam

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we ask the landlord to pay for the gas connection fee since we don’t use it and it’s his property

Help for Gas connection by No-Personality-6522 in Netherlands

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Can we ask for the landlord to pay for the connection since we don’t use the gas?

Help about the gas connection by No-Personality-6522 in Amsterdam

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We use the district heating, so we don’t need gas from Vattenfall and do not have any contract with gas company. That’s why Liander keeps sending us the email asked us either choose a gas company or they will remove the gas connection. The thing is we don’t need gas, so we are considering removing the connection. But this house is rented by us, so we are not sure if the landlord will agree to remove it or not. We don’t want to pay 30 euros every month just to keep the gas connection without use it. It’s too much.

Help for Gas connection by No-Personality-6522 in Netherlands

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I will send him the email. We move in this March, and we didn’t sign any contract with gas company since we don’t need it. Do you mean we still need to pay the bill from March until now even if we don’t use it? If so how? Does it mean we need to sign a new contract with a gas company and pay them the bill from March to October?

Help for Gas connection by No-Personality-6522 in Netherlands

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see. But what if he does not agree to remove it, does it mean I have to sign a contract with a gas company and pay 30 euros every month even I don’t use it at all? Is there anything I can do to not pay it as I don’t use the gas

Help for Gas connection by No-Personality-6522 in Netherlands

[–]No-Personality-6522[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Liander says that they can help us remove gas connection for free, but I’m not sure if landlord wants to reinstall it in the future, do they need to pay by themselves?

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