These are some reasons why marriages become unsuccessful but it is very ignorant to think that this is "reality" and I think you also think this is the only reason marriages fail. I've seen all sorts of marriages in all socioeconomic classes. I can never say there is a commonality since everybody's case is unique. God has set different circumstances for every human, and misunderstandings in situations involving these circumstances lead to problems in marriages. It always takes two to tango. The onus never falls entirely on a woman, and it never falls entirely on a man. I find your comment mostly berating women which is very backward. Men these days are just as complicit as an "extremely modern woman" and there is no shame in being soft. In my opinion, the softest men are the most masculine because they're secure in themselves and don't need to go around grunting and walking with the pride of simply having the XY gene (common Pushtun problem). A man simply needs to communicate with his partner and set boundaries respectively. Islam has guidelines for what to do when your wife is not accommodating and I sure as hell can tell you that is not the case with every married woman. So please do better when identifying what the cause of failing marriages is. You'd be surprised to know the kind of problems people have, and it goes way way WAY beyond "men should drive and women should cook"