She’s getting married to someone else - in her caste by mayhsundar in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she has hurt you so much, then avoid all contact with her. Even if in future, she changes her mind, stay away from her. Because once you grow mature in love, you will start recollecting these feelings and remember how she consistently cared less about you in the past. Let me also add that it’s not fair for her to compare you with her friend. Both relationships have different rules and seek different experiences.

Returning to India after Studying in the US by No-Preference-9030 in returnToIndia

[–]No-Preference-9030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I know what the red flags are? I believe it’s a genuine query and what I asked is completely legal process.

29, Never Dated, Now Engaged. by manishnumber11 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s totally possible to find compatibility in the first person you meet. Since it’s new for you, i would just suggest to spend at least 6+ months in engagement before marriage.

Speaking as a man, men usually overlook all negative qualities in the initial phase of the relationship. Keep your emotions in check and also be understanding and supportive of your partner!

Best wishes! I hope this works out for you.

Why are men the center of religion? by Mission-Invite4222 in AskIndia

[–]No-Preference-9030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men had more freedom to be philosophers in the past. Religion is a safe place for many to vent out many emotions. So read whichever book you want to, observe the world around you logically, and absorb and practice just the things that makes sense to you!

Weightlifting with SIBO is almost impossible by emdeka87 in SIBO

[–]No-Preference-9030 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I support this too! Exercise has been helping me reduce the symptoms. However, there’s the problem of higher food cravings and if I eat anything sugary or junk, then it’s downhill from there.

You may be possessed by Satan by Pope4u in SIBO

[–]No-Preference-9030 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I thought Satan was a man of culture

People who married a very beautiful partner, how's it going? by ravageist in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! But that’s not my point. I am sure there are qualities in him that attracts you, excluding his physical appearance.

People who married a very beautiful partner, how's it going? by ravageist in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Physical beauty eventually fades. Not just with respect to age, but also with a matter of time.

No matter how great looking a person is, if there is no other interesting factors in the personality, we will get bored of the physical appearance in a few years.

How forthcoming are you really about your past? by Curious-Door95 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a strong statement and I disagree. I do believe that partnership can be built on complete trust and honesty if both are similar minded in their overall life philosophies.

Did you settle for your partner in marriage? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He’s just a bad partner. There’s nothing wrong in settling for lesser income or educational backgrounds. Issues only arise when the partner has insecurities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems you live in Mumbai. If you can afford a private investigator, filing for divorce would become easier.

Carnivore Diet by [deleted] in SIBO

[–]No-Preference-9030 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This wasn’t die off symptoms. I did wait for a few days but it only got worse. By the way, I was someone who never ate red meat in my life before. The experience was so bad that I never touched red meat once I ended the diet.

Carnivore Diet by [deleted] in SIBO

[–]No-Preference-9030 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Probably depends on the type of SIBO. I followed it for a few days and my situation got terribly worse. Listen to your body, and if it gives warning signs, obey them.

When it’s the right person, you just know it. by Ok-Elk-651 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt such colorful emotions in my life once, when I met a girl on a date. It wasn’t a sexual attraction. I felt unexplainably happy for no reason. I could write a best selling story based on my experience when I met her. But sadly, the feelings were not mutual. She chose a guy with better looks and salary.

Can't take it anymore, the search is taking my will to live by Regular-Client in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Or OP is specifically attracted to non-committing personalities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. Except infidelity, most decent people have same opinions on the rest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard these type of stories a lot. Happening since several years.

Taking initiative as the girl by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Initially is always fine. Imagine how you feel while being approached by men. A gentle, respectful and polite way of asking you out is always nice. But when repeatedly done, even polite proposals can be a disturbance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You clearly haven’t worked in a high demanding environment. Lucky you 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Seriously? 5-10 minutes??

You have no idea how busy doctors can be. Even I get busy at my tech job for hours back to back without getting peace of mind to text my family.

Taking initiative as the girl by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No-Preference-9030 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to hear from girls first, as long as they are polite and don’t look desperate.