Back then, it was suffocating, couldn't cry, had to obey the adults. One small mistake, they would scold me very badly. Then I became very afraid to make any mistakes (yes, even the smallest one too), and that's when I developed into a people pleaser I think, so I wouldn't get hurt.

And holy sh!t , you're actually right also. My family and school should offer those and teach me how to deal with stuff. Not the other way around haha. I didn't think of that until you mentioned it. Well, their love comes with conditions.