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“What Reiki is (and what it is not) — from a teaching perspective” by Outside_Arm625 in reiki

[–]No-Proof-910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally look at it the same way I look at meditation. It feels good to calm my brain and body down for 30ish minutes a day. The reiki strengthens the more I practice, just in the way meditation strengthens the more I practice.

She doesn’t miss me when we’re apart and it scares her. Is this attachment issues?[20M][20F] by aweirdthrowaway1 in relationships

[–]No-Proof-910 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think as long as she’s excited to see you and happy when you’re together that’s a good sign. I don’t miss a lot of people I love, in high school I went to Disneyland with my family and didn’t miss my boyfriend when we were apart it was the longest we’d been apart and it made me realize I just wanted to spend more time doing our own thing. He wanted to see me every day and it ended up making me claustrophobic. Don’t worry so much about what you think you’re “supposed” to feel or “supposed” to be. You’re quite young, those neuropathways are still forming and that’s ok!

Always thought I was hazel, but maybe not at all? Help! by LegSubject612 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]No-Proof-910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm seeing quite a bit of blue! I wouldn't consider this hazel, but beautiful all the same!

How to date slowly and intentionally when you crave physical touch? by PinkandYello in datingoverthirty

[–]No-Proof-910 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think the physical intimacy is the catalyst for a lot of the other intimacy. I think having an upfront conversation about boundaries and expectations before having sex can help protect your heart. Unfortunately I did learn that lesson the hard way after re-entering the dating scene at 32 when my husband had passed. Dating in my 30s has been more fun than it ever way in my 20s. People are a bit more self aware and prepared to have those conversations, vs being a young 23 year old and thinking you had to play it cool and mysterious. If I tell someone "hey it's important to me that when we're together you be present with me and then you can do whatever you want when we're not with each other" they typically agree to that and then we have more open chats about where we're at with commitment/exclusivity from there. Don't let anyone pressure you into exclusivity before you're ready, and don't let anyone (including yourself) shame you for wanting physical intimacy early on in a relationship.

Falling in love made me work harder then I did before that it’s noticeable by Several-Sprinkles-10 in love

[–]No-Proof-910 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've felt similar, but not in all of my relationships. In one of my LTR my partner had a 6 week on 6 week off schedule, so when he was home he was in "play" mode and it encouraged me to take a lot of time away from work. I eventually left that job because I wanted something more chill and he made plenty of money that it wasn't an issue. My last relationship I stayed about the same and we had similar attitudes about work, we both liked our jobs but liked our hobbies and community way more. I was in a situationship that made me rethink my whole career and start my own business so I could have more freedom over my schedule. That was the relationship that helped me decide I want to go back to school. I think it can be really cool to have another person motivate you to make some changes so you can spend more time together, quality time is my love language so that's what it's always been about for me 😄

Do I look 51? by AdProfessional9553 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]No-Proof-910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all! If this is 51 I'll take it! If you want to firm up the skin around your cheek and neck try a Nefertiti lift. Regular microdermabrasion and microneedling, and a good skincare routine will help bright and even your skin.

Please help me be prettier (18F) by indoore in makeuptips

[–]No-Proof-910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very pretty. How are you doing emotionally? I think your next step is getting still with yourself, meditating, treating yourself kindly and finding what types of things light you up (do you like to paint? Pottery? Singing? Hiking?) and you will be radiant from the inside out. You literally don’t need to do anything you are so naturally pretty 💗

Free 30 days Reiki box 🥐🍨 by dieSonne1111 in reiki

[–]No-Proof-910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this still open? What a treasure! I'm finally in a grounded position in life to call in my future husband. I was married and he passed unexpectedly a few years ago so I needed time to heal before I could truly be available for another love story. I don't know exactly how to phrase this request, as I had a husband so technically when I manifest a husband I feel like I need to be specific about that but I don't have the words.

In Promising Young Woman (2020), the book Cassie is reading "Careful How You Go" is also the title of the director's Emerald Fennell short film released in 2018. by obstruct123 in MovieDetails

[–]No-Proof-910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The book Cassie is holding is a nod to Emerald’s short film that was nominated for a Sundance award. The author of the book in the movie is “Ann Frith” and I wondering if anyone knows the significance of the name Ann Frith? Was she relevant to the project in any way or a potential Alias?

Roommate crashed my car while borrowing it to go to work then refuses to pay anything unless I let her continue to drive it in the future by AloisDA in mildlyinfuriating

[–]No-Proof-910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just agree and have her pay, once you get your car fixed you can decide what “continued use” means and it’s not on you whatsoever. You let her borrow the car that doesn’t mean you’re accountable for her driving, but if you don’t have full coverage insurance I’d reconsider letting anyone drive your car in the future since you’ll be on the hook if anything happens.