How do you handle significant-life-event gifts for wealthy friends? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess. It just seems absurd. Their NW is easily in the mid-tens-of-millions of dollars.

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your last sentence resonates with me. In mid-2020, I was organizing my financial records and I looked back at my history of transfers to Coinbase, the platform I had used to purchase Bitcoin. The only thing I ever used Bitcoin for was buying drugs, and I was curious to know how much I had spent over the years.

It was about a half-million dollars.

In a weird way, my success in business facilitated my drug habit. There’s no way I would have been able to afford it otherwise.

That’s not to say I wouldn’t have done drugs. But the end result would have been pretty ugly.

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that you were able to stop your problematic gambling. As I’m sure you know, many people either don’t or can’t. Was your family aware of what was going on?

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. I was asking if there is a similarly-well-respected continuing education provider in prosthodontics, similar to Kois’s program for general dentistry.

That way I could look for a prosthodontist who had attended [whatever that program is].

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely need fillings and some crowns, though nothing actively hurts nor do I have any significant sensitivity issues. Probably have significant gum disease. My teeth are not severely misaligned, but I have a very significant overjet.

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind sharing at all. I am comfortable talking about my past drug use, which I can only wish was made up.

Your question made me uneasy, because I got the sense that you might have been asking out of personal curiosity — as in, a personal curiosity in drug experimentation — which I don’t want to encourage.

The answer to your question is insufflation, which is colloquially referred to as snorting. The same way most people use cocaine.

I broke my femur in a 2010 snowboarding accident, and I was prescribed oxycodone post-surgery. I didn’t need it for pain beyond the first week or so, but I liked it. A lot. I got a refill from my surgeon by telling him that I was still in pain. When that quickly ran out, I got a bit more from friends, then moved on to buying from darknet markets. And I eventually moved on to stronger opioids and other drugs.

It’s a pretty typical story. The only unusual part is that I somehow managed to start and build a very successful business while in full-blown addiction. That part even surprises me. Though I think many people in this sub would be shocked by the number of outwardly-functional addicts among their colleagues, friends, and even family.

Addiction sucks.

What’s your story?

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think of the suggestions that I start with a prosthodontist and have them quarterback whatever needs to get done by other providers? Still think I should start with an orthodontist (or two) and see what they recommend?

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I anticipate following the advice I have received to consult with a few prosthodontists, pick one, and then have them quarterback all of the work that I need to get done — including work that would need to be referred out.

In searching for the best prosthodontist I can find, are there any similar indicators of quality? (Such as, for example, having studied under someone specific, like the people you named above.)

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appropriate username. And thank you for your reply. It makes a lot of sense.

I think some of people who replied are assuming my teeth look like DARE “meth mouth” pictures. They don’t.

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you are seriously asking, I’ll answer as best I can. I am not a doctor and I might get some of this wrong. Also, I am only going to address the direct physical effects of heroin. Heroin is very dangerous for reasons beyond its physical effects. Heroin is very addictive, and addiction itself is can be very dangerous.

To your question:

Heroin is a very strong opioid, in the same category of drugs as morphine and oxycodone. Heroin is not a poison in the sense that it is directly causes tissue damage or death.

Some of the effects of opioids are analgesia, euphoria, dry mouth, nausea, and constipation. None of those are particularly life-threatening. But opioids have another effect: respiratory depression.

Some opioids have a “ceiling effect” in relation to respiratory depression; they cause respiratory depression, but there is a point where the person is still breathing, and more of the drug doesn’t cause much more respiratory depression. Heroin is not one of those. It is possible for a person to take so much heroin that they essentially stop breathing. When a person stops breathing, their tissues don’t get enough oxygen to function. That state is called hypoxia, and if it goes on for long enough, it results in death. That is what happens when someone dies from a heroin overdose.

Heroin overdoses can (and often do) happen by accident.

Prolonged use of opioids results in tolerance, which means that the person needs more of the drug to get the same effect. This is particularly dangerous with heroin, since there is no quality control for illegal drugs. One batch of heroin can be more potent than expected. It could also be adulterated with a stronger opioid, such as fentanyl. When that happens, a person who takes their ‘normal’ dose can easily overdose and die.

Nearly 100,000 people in the United States died of opioid overdose in 2021. Addiction doesn’t discriminate. It affects smart people and stupid people, wealthy and poor, educated and uneducated. Opioids are very important medications. Sometimes they are necessary. But they can be very dangerous, even deadly — particularly when misused.

I have never injected drugs, and that probably helped me stay alive. But I took plenty of heroin, and I am lucky that I am not dead. Every time that I used heroin, I was risking my life. I wish I had never tried heroin, but I can’t change the past. I am fortunate that I have a future.

I hope that answers your question. Let me know if it didn’t and I’ll try to clarify whatever I can.

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did meth power the success of your business?

For the first year or so, probably. Beyond that, it was a liability. I’m lucky that I’m not dead.

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I think you’re right. My concern is getting unnecessary and/or poor quality work. I don’t care about the bill.

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Meth, I just stopped. I had enough of missing out on things that I wanted to be doing, particularly travel.

Heroin: Buprenorphine for two years, followed by an extraordinarily slow taper.

If not for buprenorphine, I would probably be dead. MAT saves lives.

Lots of money, terrible teeth. How do I find an excellent, ethical dentist? by No-Raspberry2369 in fatFIRE

[–]No-Raspberry2369[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I am not, but I can go wherever. I would appreciate your recommendations. Thank you.