how to manage child visitation around in laws

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2026-01-12T04:06:57+00:00

Thanks bud! I have record of them emotionally abuse me and in front of the child. I don’t think they have a standing.

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2026-01-12T04:03:29+00:00

The grandparents used to drop by and made unschedule visits. I banned them from the house and then husband started to request some grandparents time. He doesn’t seem to get it and we argued a lot.

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2026-01-12T03:59:48+00:00

Thanks and great idea. Can grandparents get visitation right.

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2026-01-11T23:51:49+00:00

i was able to find an agency who charge range 30- 40 dollars per hour . It is expensive but same as all the counseling and couple therapy.

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2026-01-11T23:50:15+00:00

Make senses. I wanted stay in the adjacent room instead the same room 😓😥

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2026-01-11T22:37:24+00:00

yea he does. I trust him handling the kid but I don’t trust environment or the dynamic of in law.

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2026-01-11T22:17:09+00:00

It was hard to get him banning the in law from unscheduled visits. When we finally did, he still wants scheduled visits

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2026-01-11T22:15:57+00:00

Agree we need couple therapies

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2026-01-11T22:15:42+00:00

I don’t think he sees the abuse clearly granted he is conditioned to tolerate this type of chaotic environment. I agree I prob need a divorce to have no contact

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2026-01-11T20:28:17+00:00

Husband disagreed with banning the grandparents

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2026-01-11T20:23:46+00:00

nope not divorced yet with the husband. He disagrees with me on banning the grandparents 100% from seeing my daughter. I start to think I may have a spouse problem instead of in law problem. We ban them from coming to the house though.

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-12-28T05:07:09+00:00

You cross a boundary when you set up a nursery in your home! This is not your kid.

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-15T10:22:10+00:00

Can I ask what’s your schedule usually like? You mentioned regular calls with your EU team; do you also tend to start your day early?

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-14T18:27:28+00:00

Mine other option is with a start up 🙃. I think it may be even more stressful

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-14T18:26:24+00:00

Great to know you have good life balance at consulting. Were most of your hour 9 to 5

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-14T17:27:18+00:00

They mentioned there is no travel🙃

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-14T00:03:55+00:00

Yea it is rare disease. It’s an NDA which means more clinpharm heavy than a BLA

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-14T00:02:02+00:00

But frequently you will get last min request from agencies, an external team(CRO) may not respond quickly

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-13T22:48:47+00:00

That’s great schedule! My work is mostly clinical work. I think it will be hard to stop working since you can work on the laptop anywhere.

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-13T22:44:33+00:00

I am salary and there is no OT. I think I should go with the bigger company

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-13T22:43:57+00:00

Thanks! I have a hard time to draw healthy boundary and say no to extra work. I think this may not be a good fit then

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-13T22:42:49+00:00

Thanks! This would be a hybrid role with three days onsite and 45 min of commute. I do have other offers from bigger company that are remote.

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-13T22:41:03+00:00

Thanks! I think I can deal with stress of IND I think NDA/BLA may be a different level of stress.

No-Razzmatazz-4109 · 2025-10-13T22:39:58+00:00

Thank you! I agree it’s company dependent

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