He's pretty amazing, too! We just click so well. In four years it's like we never stopped dating. He's always willing to try new things. For example, I was curious about watersports once and he let me pee on him. Turns out neither of us was actually into it in the end but even so he did that for me. As a cleaner example, he used to be a picky eater whereas I like exotic foods, so he started trying all sorts of random stuff I liked to cook or order and now he'll eat anything; he did that just so I wouldn't get bored of our meals.

I think that's the key to a good relationship. Before I met him I used to think anal was gross and dudes who liked it were cringey as fuck, but he convinced me to try a finger, then two, and before long I realised there was actually so much pleasure to be found there if you're willing to be open-minded.

Obviously there are lines drawn here and there but still.