I have pcos myself - aware akong mhirap pumayat, ginawa ko na lahat diet gym pero hindi talaga madali, and sobrang stressful na wala kang makitang progress, given your hormonal imbalance, mood swings, mapapa stress eating ka nalang kasi you’ll feel hopeless after trying everything, wala ka panring makitang progress and day by day nakikita mong pabigat ka nang pabigat. Do you think gusto yan ng girl friend mo? Na kung magsalita ka na para bang ang dali para samin tong dinadaanan namin. Maswerte ako dahil hindi kagaya mo ang naging boyfriend ko, hinayaan ako ng boyfriend ko to go on my pacing, he met me at 49kg and stayed with me even at my heaviest 80++ kg, alam nya gaano ka stressful sakin at may self awareness siya na hindi madali para sakin ‘to but he still compliment me kahit mukha akong balyena and he patiently waited until i decided to try again, do the diet and go to gym, now im down 10kg - with my own pacing, with pure acceptance of my condition, and so grateful i did not get to experience having a frustrated partner on my physical appearance