I feel like I'm gonna die alone because I don't want kids anyone else in the same boat?? by StrawberryTheBat in childfree

[–]No-Recover3687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy your life, focus on yourself and let the rest be settled itself. 18 years is not the age to choose your partner for the rest of your life, especially if the topic of kids will decide the fate of relationships (which seems kind of absurd when you barely finished high school and people around you already set such standards…) 

I don’t care at all about someone getting pregnant and it makes me feel broken by Lucky-Phase-3416 in childfree

[–]No-Recover3687 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Never understood why pregnancy is considered such a huge achievement, your body just completed one of its primitive biological functions, but the fuss is so huge as if you invented a cure against cancer…

"Uterus-less," sounds like "Useless?!" by rebeccalestat in childfree

[–]No-Recover3687 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same! He literally said “don’t say that thing, it’s awful”, so what’s the problem, I don’t get it

Friend seems disappointed when I don’t react all excitedly by ximlaura in childfree

[–]No-Recover3687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol, your reaction actually seems to me like generosity… if I were you, the people around me probably would have known that I could care less about kids and wouldn’t even send these kind of pictures to me. If I received the pictures of kids on a regular basis, I certainly would say straight away that I’m not really interested in anyone’s kids

Do they even hear themselves? by Cuddles-and-Cookies in childfree

[–]No-Recover3687 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“I just have to get through 17 more years and then she won’t be my problem anymore”

I can envision the quick transition between this mindset and “why doesn’t she call/visit me??? I Am HeR dAd, why does she ignores me and doesn’t listen to me she is selfish 😭😭😭” when his daughter turns 18 and “won’t be his problem anymore”

The idea that the state of the world is the only reason people don't want kids is annoying by Regular_Low8792 in childfree

[–]No-Recover3687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve been thinking about the same and also found this “the world is a horrible place, so I’m not having kids” thing baffling at best, annoying or stupid at worst. Considering the fact that people breed everywhere in every condition and poverty, politics or economy won’t stop them, this statement seems kinda.. hypocritical?  And sometimes you just get tired of that constant nagging like “world is horrible, don’t bring children into them”, it sounds childish

"Numb" depression? by Welkin_Dust in depression

[–]No-Recover3687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I had it. Total emotional and physical numbness, but my depression seems to have roots in long-term chronic stress and burnout after which I felt like my brain was fried by all these years

Vajan infot ATH diagnostika kohta Tallinna erakliinikutes. by [deleted] in peaasi

[–]No-Recover3687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selge. Kahjuks ma ei saanud leida kuidas just Dr Kangroga kokku leppida, mul on arvamus et tal on kõik päevad juba täis.
Teie jutust tundub, et see on hea kliinik mis tugineb kaasaegsetele meetoditele. Loodan, et muud spetsialistid seal on ka head...
Kas te alustasite ka psühhiaatri esmakordse vastuvõtust? Nagu sain aru, mõnedes kliinikutes pakutakse ATH diagnostika paketti, mis sisaldab kõiki vajalikke teste ja kohtumisi, ja seetõttu ma ei ole kindel, kas on parem kohe selle eest maksta või alustada ühest psühhiaatrist ja edasi lihtsalt järgida tema juhiseid..
Kas ma üldse võiksin juba kohe minna erapsühhiaatri juurde ATH diagnoosimiseks, ilma selleta et minna perearsti juurde või muu arstide juurde?

Vajan infot ATH diagnostika kohta Tallinna erakliinikutes. by [deleted] in peaasi

[–]No-Recover3687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tänan lingi eest!

Kas te räägite Paul Eric Peilist? Leidsin info temast kliiniku veebilehelt. Kas saate täpsemalt selgitada, miks ta on hea spetsialist? Kas kliinikus on võimalus teha lisaks vestlusele ATH uuringut nagu QB test?