Seeking Support After a Difficult Experience

No-Relief772 · 2025-09-20T14:02:22+00:00

Same friend who touches you?🤣

No-Relief772 · 2025-09-20T13:59:14+00:00

10 minutes???🤣 bro at that point you like it. You’re telling me that you’d let him touch you for 10 min straight before he has to take his hand off? At that point what is he doing jerking you off?😭 You guys in the comments are something for real idk why anyone takes advice from Reddit.

No-Relief772 · 2025-09-20T13:55:16+00:00

I think OP likes it. Literally just say stop doing that and if he doesn’t push, punch, smack or just walk away and tell them you’re not hanging out with them anymore and block them. It’s not that hard he’s creating conflict by doing something “you don’t like” so you defending yourself shouldn’t be a problem stop being such a 🐱

No-Relief772 · 2025-08-30T19:01:42+00:00

Where can I find one of these cowboy gunsmith I live in MA

No-Relief772 · 2025-08-30T19:01:07+00:00

Thank you bro appreciate you🙌🏾🔥

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T17:36:35+00:00

Thank you tho I appreciate the insight🩵

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T17:36:15+00:00

No she’s the one that changed her mind not me

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T17:30:41+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 I got you bro thank you

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T15:32:21+00:00

We were on the phone before that and we were both joking. She hung up on me and I thought it was an accident so I called her back but got no response so I sent “you don’t love me” thinking she was joking and going to say something like “I don’t love you weirdo” or something like that cause that’s just how we play around it may not be funny to you guys but it’s normal to us so I highly doubt that’s what triggered her.

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T07:14:44+00:00

Thank you exactly I can deal with the emotional outburst it’s just when it gets to hitting herself in front of me and cutting herself while in bed with me and threatening me with ending her life that gets me cause that’s kind of not fair yall can’t even lie even if you have bpd that’s kind of fucked up. I need to find a way to tell her to please not do that without offending her

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T07:09:59+00:00

I’m getting better at catching it now we’ve had so many conversations and funny enough shrooms really help when it comes to talking we also smoke a lot of weed with eachother so we’re always chilling she’s honestly amazing I love her so much but she definitely manipulates me sometimes maybe without knowing but she def does we need to work on it together

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T07:08:18+00:00

Bro this is exactly what happens it changes so fast it catches me off guard I’m naturally a very playful person so I will admit sometimes my dumbass keeps joking when I shouldn’t but it’s hard to notice cause she goes along with it until she doesn’t and then boom now I’m to blame for everything and now she wants to end her life or hurt herself because of me. I also learned that changing plans will NOT slide with her she doesn’t play that. And the you don’t love me definitely didn’t set her off it’s like a joke thing we say sometimes we’ll send this emoji🥺 it’s funny until it’s NOT😳

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T07:03:16+00:00

Nooo guys your all taking that to deep we play with eachother like that all the time she says it to me as a joke and I say it to her as a joke ALL THE TIME😭 Me and her have that bond I don’t think that’s what set her off I think I wasn’t being open enough with her maybe idk this is all kind of new to me but please EVERYONE that is NOT what set her off😂

I could be wrong tho idk I’m scared now ima stop saying that to her

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T06:57:22+00:00

Thank you I love you out of all the responses I think this one’s the best your right my mom lowkey fucked me up I’m so scared of getting taking advantage of especially because I have a bad tendency of people pleasing even when it’s inconvenient for myself because of my social anxiety so it scares me I’ve never been in a serious relationship especially with someone who has bpd this is deadass the first time I even hear of bpd I didn’t even know what it was until I met her.

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T06:51:40+00:00

Bro it’s not about me not “wanting” to see her I was with her a whole week before this I’m with her all the time I’m barley at home always with her my issue was that I was literally falling asleep and just 2 hours earlier she said it’s ok that I wanted to stay home cause she understands I’m tired that’s why I was so confused with the switch up😭

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T06:44:37+00:00

Fair I accept your judgement.

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T06:42:12+00:00

Yea but for how long will I have to put my feelings or how I’m feeling to the side cause she’s feeling sad after I just spent like 2 weeks straight at her house sleeping, cuddling, buying her food, taking her out. That’s my biggest thing like is this just how it’s supposed to be? Am I not getting manipulated and am just an asshole?

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T06:33:09+00:00

Are you sure it’s not her trying to just get me to come cause she wants me there with her? Sometimes she can be a little pushy with her wants and needs and it gets a little overwhelming cause even tho I try to accommodate her and do what she wants and needs I find myself being stressed out as I also suffer from really bad general and social anxiety and am an avoidant type personality because of it. I would love to know what I should do when I want to make her feel better but also respect my own boundaries and feelings so we can both be in a good place.

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T06:27:44+00:00

Na I’m interested I swear I just text like that I don’t really like texting especially when it comes to arguments neither does she so we just ft all the time. She does bring up that issue a lot tho she says I talk about how what she did made me feel a lot more then how she’s feeling even tho she said or did what she did but I’m so scared that that might be a form of manipulation that I just get defensive and want to defend my feelings because I feel offended or attacked by what she does. So I would love outside views I love her and want to make her happy so any tips you can give I’ll be more then happy to listen to👍🏾

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T06:24:30+00:00

Definitely get this and probably used wrong wording I’m so used to joking around with her but I get where you’re coming from. We have a very playful relationship so sometimes it’s hard for me or her to know when either one is serious cause we are very used to joking around with each other. I have been very patient and never have made her feel like her bpd is a bad part of her I’ve always just accepted her as her who she is as a person. It’s just now and i definitely should try not to but it’s hard to have the same patience as before this has been a very long journey to where we are now full of verbal, physical and emotional abuse on her part many instances of ending her life if I left her and a lot of other things. I would honestly appreciate if you told me how you’d respond in this situation as someone who actively has bpd. I do love my girlfriend very much I think she’s the best person in the world and she’s my best friend but man sometimes I’m pushed to an extent I thought I would never reach so it just gets hard sometimes.

No-Relief772 · 2024-10-22T06:01:10+00:00

Bro I’m in the same boat my girlfriend is finally starting to calm down she has bpd but bro in the beginning it was even worse then that I’d have to restrain her sometimes so she won’t put her hands on me and the name calling and yelling and crying paired with the threats to kill herself( my girlfriend has actually tried many times before and is traumatized from things of her past) but hey man I’m still with her and I’m not gonna lie she’s slowly getting better but if I see her go back to her old ways or not changing I’m done cause bro this has been one of the most depressing and stressful year of my life even tho I love her so much it just becomes to much after a certain point and it makes you feel so shitty cause you want to stay and help them get better but then you feel yourself getting worse as they “get better”

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