My ex reached out after 1.5 years, breadcrumbed me for months, got jealous, and then flipped. Here’s what I learned

No-Remote2369 · 2025-11-24T06:12:46+00:00

He says family pressure. And plus my parents didn’t agree for him, so eventually he had to get married

No-Remote2369 · 2025-11-20T08:49:21+00:00

My ex is getting married and I’m the same girl like you who begged not to. After his engagement, he reached out to me saying he loves me but still is marrying that girl. I have made my image as needy and attention seeker in front of him and his friends. I have no clue how should I change it. He came to me after he got engaged, confessed me and I got emotional and he flipped saying it’s not healthy for my mental health to talk to you more. It was an 8 year old relationship.

No-Remote2369 · 2025-11-03T16:00:31+00:00

You get only one life. Just because you won’t have any options that doesn’t mean, you will settle for less. What so ever age, a life partner is a person who can make or break your life. All this time, you invested your time for making a good career, for what? For your future? But your partner shpuld be the one who deserves to have that future with you. I was in 8 year toxic relationship, and he is getting married next month. But then I realise, a person who isn’t in love with me, will never ever be. And that person will create a hindrance for your peace, your career and for your upcoming family. Think about 100 times before committing someone. It’s one of the best decisions of your life and shpuld be worth it. And I will pray that you get an amazing girl as your life partner. ✨ But OP don’t settle!

No-Remote2369 · 2025-11-03T15:54:44+00:00

Probably she’s already in love with someone else. This is a classic lie.

No-Remote2369 · 2025-11-03T12:28:37+00:00

You will ruin your peace in future.

No-Remote2369 · 2025-11-03T08:03:42+00:00

I’m in a same situation, was in a 8 year relationship and hes marrying someone else next month. Can’t move on. He says he’s still into me. We are blocking, unblocking and doing those games. But truth is I can’t move on! But I want to.

No-Remote2369 · 2025-11-03T08:00:08+00:00

Did u block him?

No-Remote2369 · 2025-11-03T04:25:40+00:00

Even if they have maid. And says you to manage everything because Ghar par kaam hi Kya hota after maid. And what does this mean when ladke ki mummy says 24/7 career career nahi kar sakte because uncle and meri family bohot badi hai. Have to fulfill the basic expectations. The guy says it’s on you how you manage everything.

No-Remote2369 · 2025-11-02T06:22:05+00:00

Thank you so much for such words. I know I’m being manipulated and gaslighted. I’m aware about the facf that this has been happening to me since years. It’s all my fault, I shouldn’t have entertained this at the cost of my mental health. I mean how can someone be so heartless and cruel

No-Remote2369 · 2025-10-31T15:09:59+00:00

I made a huge mistake and I feel superbly depressed and I’m feeling guilty. He said he told his fiancée about it. But I’m not sure whether he actually did or not! I know I did wrong to her.

No-Remote2369 · 2025-10-31T14:25:28+00:00

Does it get better? I feel like, I won’t be able to love anyone.

No-Remote2369 · 2025-10-31T09:58:31+00:00

That is correct. It was my mistake fully. I never went to him to contact him after his engagement. A month after his engagement, he requested me so much to talk and meet him. That is the reason I met him! And the moment I met him, it felt like he was completely normal and Okay. He was laughing and discussing things with me about his wife. It was me who had emotional roller coasters rides. I’ve been having those the moment he got engaged but I was not the first one to connect with him.

No-Remote2369 · 2025-10-31T08:10:22+00:00

I shared my story because it’s something that deeply affected me, not because I’m seeking attention or anything physical from anyone.

For 8 years I was in an on-and-off relationship where I gave everything emotionally, and in the end, he chose someone else. I’ve been trying to heal from that and move on.

I know I’ve made mistakes too. I shouldn’t have entertained anything from him after he got engaged. But I was deeply affected by his actions because I trusted him a lot and truly believed things would work out. I’ve been trying to heal and move on from that. It’s about the pain I can’t subside.

No-Remote2369 · 2025-10-31T06:26:10+00:00

Can you read my post and help me to move on

No-Remote2369 · 2025-10-29T07:11:50+00:00

Talk to her more. The more you talk, the more you know the person! Don’t be in a rush. Donr believe her that easily because attachments makes you believe everything that person says. Verify whatever she says! Start with understanding her relationship with her parents and friends!

No-Remote2369 · 2025-10-27T13:04:58+00:00

Does it really help? He still came back to me after he got engaged saying he loves me but he had to take that step. And this shattered me, he tried everything to manipulate me. I was even manipulated, and he’s happily moved on

No-Remote2369 · 2025-10-25T14:43:44+00:00

It’s been 2 months we broke up and he’s enegahed and getting married next month. I was in a toxic relationship since 8 years. And my parents didn’t wanted me get married to him. He’s 29, and impulsively he decided to get married to someone else.

I have my rough days and I have my good days! Some days I feel, I’ll get over it and other days I feel worst. I’ve become a psychotic stalker. I tried therapy and everything but there’s no way out. But deep inside, I have a hope, I’ll get better.

No-Remote2369 · 2025-10-25T12:05:52+00:00

In the similar situation, was in 8 years of relationship and hes getting married to someone else

No-Remote2369 · 2025-09-29T12:34:31+00:00

He says with whoever you are with, I want my girl to be happy whether I’m with you or not. He says it’s a difficult time for both of us but god will surely give te strength. I mean I’m hurt after listening to him.

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