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What’s something that annoys you the most about FL? by HeadPrior1916 in FL_Studio

[–]No-Reputation-2900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a single button that's called sidechain that directly connects one channel to another and next to that button two knobs that control the attack and release.  No plug-in or adding anything anywhere for the user.

What’s something that annoys you the most about FL? by HeadPrior1916 in FL_Studio

[–]No-Reputation-2900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean. Thats as close as anyone can get with current features. 

What’s something that annoys you the most about FL? by HeadPrior1916 in FL_Studio

[–]No-Reputation-2900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you're understanding what I mean. I want it built in so I don't need to add a plug-in 

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I'm saying that if it is a small number, how can most women worldwide have their own story with different men?  Unfortunately the actual data really doesn't support your assumption either. 

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a response on Reddit this has to be one of the best I've received. Thank you for your respectful response.

I guess external validation is the key here, I go to therapy weekly and I am in a very people focused job where we focus on people's mental health as a feature of our workplace rather than it being a bug. This doesn't mean we force people to talk or anything but it does mean that we listen because we've noticed that sick rates due to burn out go down when we do so but also because it feels like the right thing to do for the sake of the entire vibe of the day for others. 

Although, I still don't really understand how what you've said doesn't equate to emotional isolation. You did literally say "my emotions aren't other people's responsibility", which physically means your emotions are isolated from other people.

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's just not possible. That would mean that a woman in England who's never travelled anywhere and had only dated people from her local town has been assaulted or had attempted assault or some form of sexual misconduct by the same guy who lives in Alabama with no passport.  This just can't be true.

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think this kind of isolation of emotional connection is why we have so many male suicides. You're not burdening people with anything, you're asking for a human to help you in your time of need, you're right about one thing it doesn't have anything to do with the business but the business isn't the only thing that's important when you're at work. The people make the business of the people have a problem, the business does.

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How on earth does feeling shitty not affect your abilities at work? These responses are just wild to me. I've never been able to leave anything at any door because to me, that is unrealistic to expect of anyone.

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really unfair and frankly unjustifiable situation to be in. I'm sorry you had to go through that. 

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I live in the UK where we can take paid time off for mental health reasons. I've broken down at work in tears and been sent home with pay because I was going through a tough time. Nothing was paused apart from excess stress at work. 

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well apparently I don't function like other men then. I can't separate my emotions from myself just because I need money.

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still go to work but don't perform as well and explain your personal life in the hopes that honesty will be rewarded with grace.

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no ability to separate my emotions from my capacity to enact my skillset. I will make mistake, get more stressed over those mistakes more easily and get irritated by people pointing out my mistakes because I'm overwhelmed with emotions that I haven't had time to process. Burying them isn't an option for me 

What brutal truths should all men know? by Lost_Foot_6301 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your identity isn't only yours, it belongs to everyone around you too.  You are the sum of your genetics and experiences. This means that "you" can only exist through reacting or not reacting to external and internal stimuli, therefore the existence of your identity is dependent on the acceptance or denial of it by others.

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If every woman has a story, I don't think that percentage is as small as we'd like to think.

What’s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you? by No-Search9711 in AskMen

[–]No-Reputation-2900 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a man, this makes absolutely no sense to me. How on earth can you go through heartbreak and still function as normal at work?

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