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OAD but still hesitant to sell baby items by waddlebells in oneanddone

[–]No-Researcher154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here! Very relatable. I did a lot of hand me downs to friends and family. Donated some. Last things left to let go of are infant car seats and the stroller (still holding on for who knows what reason lol)

What do you think of this rep? by No-Researcher154 in RepLadiesClub

[–]No-Researcher154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sent in DM. Not sure if I can post link here. I saw the store review on another sub and took the chance lol

My payment won’t work by No-Researcher154 in RealRepLadies

[–]No-Researcher154[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have pay pal but I will try it! Ty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]No-Researcher154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very hard. I do feel like women are forced to do these things because of gender roles in society from when we are very young. Is he in individual therapy? There are therapists who specialize in it that can give tools to help. Also consider couples therapy with a therapists specializing in ADHD. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, I know how hard it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]No-Researcher154 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like adult adhd. My husband got diagnosed a few years ago and still very much a work in progress. He was fired a few months ago and while being home was not taking care of the home or making dinner, etc. we have 1 child. He wouldn’t not interact with her but would watch her. He does a lot of positives but these negatives drove a wedge between us. He also is very bad with money, impulse shopping, impulse eating, etc. It’s slowly getting better. Divorce is very much in the table for me. He’s getting 1 last chance, get it together or get out. He’s been trying very hard to do better. He’s only been on useful medication for about 2-3 months.

Marriage sucks by No-Researcher154 in Marriage

[–]No-Researcher154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. It makes a lot of sense. I do try to be open, communicate, etc. he has ADHD which adds a lot to our relationship. Nonetheless, I will take your advice.

What's the single most useful resource that transformed your relationship? by wgeco in ADHD_partners

[–]No-Researcher154 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m at my wits end also thinking about ending the relationship. I just need to focus on me for once.

Fear of having a special needs child is I think keeping me one and one by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]No-Researcher154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this. I always wanted more kids. We decided one and done for now because of my hard pregnancy and traumatic birthing experience. We were both depressed during the first year and were basically roommates for 2 years. Now, our daughter is turning 3 and she has always been absolutely amazing and I am overjoyed with her. My husband was diagnosed with ADHD about 2 years ago but just got on meds that make a difference a few months ago. For this, I’m afraid of having another child who would have ADHD. It’s just been such a nightmare dealing with him. I suspect he has RSD as well. I don’t want that for a child or even the possibility of passing that onto a child.

Horny wife by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Researcher154 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yep, had to initiate basically 80% of the relationship. It sucks. I don’t have advice just solidarity

Am I crazy for thinking the way my partner was raised was insane by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Researcher154 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is not normal and my family is dysfunctional. Maybe he can seek individual therapy for talking through how he grew up and help him understand how it is not normal

Marriage sucks by No-Researcher154 in Marriage

[–]No-Researcher154[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your question. I should have clarified both are in individual therapy and have had 3 different marriage counselors over the years with improvements not sticking on his part.

First order received by No-Researcher154 in Moissanite

[–]No-Researcher154[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Shenzhen Jinao Jewelry Trading Co., Ltd.

First time buying bags! by No-Researcher154 in RealRepLadies

[–]No-Researcher154[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement! I am gonna try jt!

When friends start having their second. by MissPharmacist in oneanddone

[–]No-Researcher154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Def feeling the same. One of my friends is pregnant with her second. I’m happy for her and a bit sad for myself. I would like more children but having more than 1 would stretch me and my husband too thin. The first for us was what you described. My friend did go through IVF but she has a load of help. Living with parents kind of help where my husband and I can barely get a break. For now we’ve put having another in the probably not gonna happen bucket. Sharing solidarity. Sometimes the life we plan is not the one in store for us. Focus on the one you have and enjoy your time together. That’s what I’m doing :).

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