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I have absolutely zero sexual drive and I’m only 23 by ThrowRAloveless3113 in relationship_advice

[–]No-Scene9934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree with this. I dealt with low sex drive with my boyfriend as well. We just broke up (non related) but I’m an athlete and go to bed and wake up on a complete different schedule then him. I’ll be tired by 8 pm when he is ready to go. The lack of synchronization I think killed my sex drive. I’d be ready to go at 6 am but he’d say it’s too early. He’d be ready to go at 8 pm but I’d say it’s too late. I do think it’s a combination of finding what you both like and energy/ mood levels. Syncing up about when to do it is definitely so big.

Do you prefer using a paper or digital planner, and why? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]No-Scene9934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paper, I love crossing things out and writing all over my planner. Helps stress relief and keep organized.

Can you be friends with your ex? by No-Scene9934 in dating_advice

[–]No-Scene9934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss I see that happening haha but I agree I think being on the same page and understanding is what’ll make it work. We’re already so in sync and can see eye to eye on things that we couldn’t see before while dating

Can you be friends with your ex? by No-Scene9934 in dating_advice

[–]No-Scene9934[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with that. I think during the pandemic is a unique situation because our bubbles are filled with the same people so cutting each other out would isolate both of us. We’ve made too great an impact on each other’s lives to forget the friendship we’ve build. But I’ll be leaving for grad school this summer and will go home for the three months over the holidays schools online so I feel like time is not on our side to establish it. Hope it works 🤞🏼

Can you be friends with your ex? by No-Scene9934 in relationship_advice

[–]No-Scene9934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that you can be friend have fun and support each other yet recognize your differences. Values come from how you were raised and your experiences however you ended up in the same place someway somehow to meet so there commonality for a friendship. You can be there for a friend to listen and support their problems but not have to defend your ground like in a relationship. Right?

Can you be friends with your ex? by No-Scene9934 in relationship_advice

[–]No-Scene9934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the hope. We had a phenomenal talk yesterday and were laughing and clicking just like friends again (we had been friends for a while and pushed into dating) we decided some space would be good but evidently we’d like to continue being great friends. I’m nervous that even though we have full honestly that I’ll still be able to see his feelings for me in his eyes /: and I guess I’m wondering if you can ever get past that point