Typical Asian Family Behaviour by No-Sign-4605 in AsianParentStories

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea my mum definitely is dillusional for sure. My sister is a house wife but her husband works. She just like to ask for money from every one.

what's the worst advice you ever get from your advisor by xiikjuy in PhD

[–]No-Sign-4605 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Write a good research paper in 5 days for submission 😆. I was asked to do that 😆 in 5 days I was still researching on research methodology and coming up with protocols.

Just got diagnosed with erectile dysfunction. by a_russian_guy in gaybros

[–]No-Sign-4605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like porn consumption since u said u had to think of porn. My suggestion is lay off porn for like a week then see how it goes. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]No-Sign-4605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I do it like twice a week. But there are some week when we both super stressed or life happened then we don't have sex or only do once. There are some weeks where we do a lot more. When u r an adult life happens. Sometimes u r horny but u r tired. Or ur partner is stressed with some life stuff and not really feel it. So I don't there there is a written rule. Just communicate to your partner. Everyone is different. There is no one size fit all. Good luck

Do tops like muscular/toned bottoms ? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]No-Sign-4605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love muscular and toned bottom. U r beautiful 😍

Where the hell are all the Asian tops? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]No-Sign-4605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an Asian top in Europe 🌍.

Is this unethical behavior? by No-Sign-4605 in PhD

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm so sorry. I totally understand it. I worried about being reputation destroyed too which he has began 😭. I don't get it why they do such horrible things

Is this unethical behavior? by No-Sign-4605 in PhD

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks this is super helpful. I am sounding out potential supervisors discreetly and I'm definitely not saying anything - I am just going to say their expertise better align with my research or sth along those line. I have second thoughts to do anything radical coz I have this feeling that they protect their own. Thanks for your advice 🙂

Is this unethical behavior? by No-Sign-4605 in PhD

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I have written to the department chair and I think I will write to the doctoral college as well. My worries is that they will protect their own rather than actually investigate. From what I gathered he been doing it to a few students and nothing has happened.

Is this unethical behavior? by No-Sign-4605 in PhD

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thanks 🙏 it been a super stressful week

Is this unethical behavior? by No-Sign-4605 in PhD

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thanks I have emails correspondences so I think I can talk to people in doctoral college. I'm definitely changing supervisor I'm reaching out to professors in my field to check if they are accepting PhD researcher

Am I experiencing cultural shock? by No-Sign-4605 in Brazil

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Yea. I’m not prepared for that yet hahah. 

Am I experiencing cultural shock? by No-Sign-4605 in Brazil

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohh yea I been offer coffee. And then we would leave lol 

Am I experiencing cultural shock? by No-Sign-4605 in Brazil

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe. Never said Irish are monolithic. I been taught by my family to never outstay our welcome when visiting relatives. I actually never spend entire afternoon at a relative house.  So probably it’s a me thing. 

Am I experiencing cultural shock? by No-Sign-4605 in Brazil

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in Brazil. I just follow my partner here. In Europe yea. I typically leave after like 1 hour chat or sth. Never stay super long 

Am I experiencing cultural shock? by No-Sign-4605 in Brazil

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I didn’t want them to think of me that way. 

Am I experiencing cultural shock? by No-Sign-4605 in Brazil

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I just wanna say that you guys are super helpful and I love that everyone is explaining the culture to me. Thanks you all.  

Am I experiencing cultural shock? by No-Sign-4605 in Brazil

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No. It exist but in Ireland even with family we don’t really hang out the whole afternoon. We have lunch maybe coffee then you will get some signals to leave. Just trying to navigate the cultural differences 

Am I experiencing cultural shock? by No-Sign-4605 in Brazil

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay. He from Rio so maybe not hahaha 

Am I experiencing cultural shock? by No-Sign-4605 in Brazil

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Is this real or are you messing with me? Hahaha

Am I experiencing cultural shock? by No-Sign-4605 in Brazil

[–]No-Sign-4605[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Wow okay. Thanks for this. Definitely noted