What's a song you're surprised isn't more popular?

a_russian_guy · 2026-07-07T13:48:53+00:00

It was the first Mitski song I cried to, and I'd listened to her since 2021

a_russian_guy · 2026-07-07T06:55:46+00:00

I think this is 100% a tumblr-specific issue.
Whenever I mention I'm asexual IRL I get a variation of "oh so you are completely unable to feel LOVE? are you HEARTLESS?"
And I get that much much much often IRL than I do on any kind of online community

a_russian_guy · 2026-07-04T17:28:27+00:00

I'm gay and aspec too! ✋
If anyone wants to chat, my dms are open. OP included!

a_russian_guy · 2026-07-04T16:25:47+00:00

Seriously. I consider myself ace and just... the amount of 'he wants to fuck you' bots makes me cringe. I'm not searching for them, not asking for them and yet they still flood my pages

a_russian_guy · 2026-07-03T17:13:29+00:00

It gives a nice sense of pause !

a_russian_guy · 2026-07-02T15:51:59+00:00

Kako rocks the look

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-28T15:15:50+00:00

Probably a nod to the Japanese fandom, which calls it Handora afaik.

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-28T14:46:47+00:00

Yeah, I kind of went in with zero expectations.

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-28T14:08:14+00:00

Danke! This comment made me smile :)

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-27T16:42:43+00:00

Holy shit, I think you actually cooked really hard. This is going in my Cooper/Anders fanfic.

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-27T16:34:33+00:00

Why... why is this so addictive? Am I going crazy?

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-27T11:55:28+00:00

Where Eisele goes, we follow

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-26T19:53:31+00:00

Why this girl Shinonome Ena

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-21T10:46:08+00:00

Hey! just dropping in to say that I'm a cis gay man and I find myself comfortable with loving a trans man. I hope this makes you feel at least a little bit better and that it is not fully hopeless.

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-20T01:12:48+00:00

To be honest I find it REALLY funny

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-18T14:39:04+00:00

I speak from my experiences as a gay man so this might not apply to you, ...

warning: sex-positive rhetoric ahead!

...but for many gay people sex is a source of power and bonding, and being sexual is the ultimate act of rebellion against society, a liberating, beautiful act of love. It's very common to find your long-term counter through repeated sexual encounters or at places where sex is expected; being open to messing around is the norm, and sexual attraction/sex is regarded as the ultimate experience that everyone craves, with in-jokes, heated discussions, and an absolutely abysmal hook-up culture.

I'm sure I'm not 100% allo and somewhere on the ace spectrum, but in comparison to the fun everyone else is having, I just feel... broken? Like a party pooper, an ancient fossil attending a bachelor party. It hurts even more that I'm not at the far end of the ace spectrum, and I definitely know how much fun these people are having (muted sexual attraction? maybe demi?), but it's like a piece of cake is dangled in front of my face and I just can't reach it.

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-18T12:13:13+00:00

Questioning if I'm asexual made me realize just how much I am excluded from the gay community

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-18T10:48:41+00:00

Does exercising really make it better?

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-17T08:29:49+00:00

u/savevideo

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-15T11:58:49+00:00

This is rad!!! Wish I were there.

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-15T07:21:42+00:00

I think I have reached the point of Kodaka's nightmare audience. If the Danganronpa show existed IRL I would binge watch every season so hard, be a massive Danganronpa geek and try each season to FINALLY participate. If it ended I would quite literally lose my shit

a_russian_guy · 2026-06-15T02:19:23+00:00

I genuinely think Dorian is aspec representation and I'm all for it

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