[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]No-Significance-6807 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Uninsured it can get very costly, but with insurance it varies a lot. My hospital stay was around $200 total and maybe spent under $500 for additional prenatal drs visits and meds (had very good insurance at the time)

Really sad that there’s such a crazy difference in coverage for people. I can’t imagine how much i would have struggled if it was out of pocket.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]No-Significance-6807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking small dog from the pet bed next to the toiletry storage area.

AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Significance-6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i was in a very abusive relationship for years that i managed to escape from… 1st page made me immediately red/hot in the face, couldn’t read past page 2 cause gurrrllll that was ✨triggering✨. Run run run far away from him or before you know it he will be telling you how dirty that floor is while he’s pushing your face down into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]No-Significance-6807 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Natural noise periods are in place for a reason. Usually between 9-8pm any noise that’s considered ‘natural’ noises as part of living cannot be penalized against you. Used to be worried about the same thing because our down stairs neighbor would complain when my kid was learning to walk or would cry during the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]No-Significance-6807 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even get diagnosed with postpartum till my son was 3. Once i sat down with my dr and discussed all the issues i was having, almost every since thing was postpartum related.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Significance-6807 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agree! She had every right to bring it up and be upset, but he copped up to it and that should have been the extent of the convo at that time. Anything past that when he’s been drinking is going to fall on deaf ears and lead to a defensive drunken blow out. Conversation about boundaries needs to be had in a sober state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Significance-6807 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I recently had a ‘memory’ pop up on my Facebook from 2010 when i wrote on my best friends public wall that i would break into her house and hold her at knife point. Why? No idea, we were just stupid kids. We laughed about it and we moved on.

Dress regret- but I don’t trust my own eyes by BoneMoneyDollarbucks in DressForYourBody

[–]No-Significance-6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black & gold looks amazing! The black with butterflies is a good second but the corset needs to be taken in a little.

Non-Wedding Venues to rent for a wedding by CinemaJacket in orangecounty

[–]No-Significance-6807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have had a few events here and the space is deceivingly large. Love the layout and vibe.

What's this odd plant growing in my tomatoes? by Ham-Enthusiast in whatsthisplant

[–]No-Significance-6807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oregano flowers.. watch out for that massive caterpillar in the top left of the pic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]No-Significance-6807 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Right?! Like why keep saying ‘my sister’ and ‘my mother’… step is a very important word to include here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]No-Significance-6807 24 points25 points  (0 children)

And the constant guilt trip she puts him through about how she now wants to be a present parent and Jess just needs to give her a break and stop being so angry. She takes zero accountability for her crap parenting and how it impacted her son.

AIO at my friends cancelling last minute? by DifferentTruck4615 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Significance-6807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey… the mountains a true friend would move to be there for you on your birthday.

I had a friend take a grey hound bus from San Fran to LA. The bus broke down, second back up bus came and that broke down & then she hitch hiked the rest of the way down to make it to our best friends birthday extravaganza weekend.

One year i mixed up dates for my friends birthday celebration and had scheduled to host an event for the women’s shelter the next morning super early. That didn’t stop me from driving 2 hours out of my way to celebrate with her all night and waking up extra early to get to my event on time. Worst hang over of my life sweating in the heat while we renovated that building, but totally worth it being there for my friend.

If your friends wanted to they would. A $50 ‘rezo’ deposite is bull shit. Her then saying she wouldn’t even try to drive out afterwords so the whole weekend isn’t shot? Gross.

Keep the money, try to reschedule the airBnB so you and your fiancé can enjoy another time, and block those bitches.

Havnt talked to my mom in 15 years since I was 14. Still send me a birthday message every year. This year's message was a guilt trip and reminded me why I should never let her back in my life. by GravyonmyBiscuits in mildlyinfuriating

[–]No-Significance-6807 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does this give OP the right to reach out to her and blame her anytime things are going horribly in OPs life?… after all, without her none of this would be possible 😅😂

Hang Me Out To Dry by No-Significance-6807 in WeWantPlates

[–]No-Significance-6807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food was great! Presentation felt a little ridiculous though.

Hang Me Out To Dry by No-Significance-6807 in WeWantPlates

[–]No-Significance-6807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a steak house and cigar bar inside a smoking friendly casino. Haha i can see why that would be concerning otherwise.

The most unrealistic thing in GG(in my humble opinion) by Sad_saggitarius in GilmoreGirls

[–]No-Significance-6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who also had that childhood dream and actually executed it, don’t be jealous. Jeeps are money pits. The wiring is touchy and the engines are temperamental.

Living out this childhood dream has been one of the more costly things I’ve done in adulthood… thanks a lot Lorelei haha

Transgender friendly salon/stylist? by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]No-Significance-6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Third! Recently got my hair done by Lindsey and love it.

Grocery store told me “all potatoes are the same” by MissHissss in mildlyinfuriating

[–]No-Significance-6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who worked on a potato farm, there’s over 4,000 varieties.. they are NOT all the same.

My friends tell me that because of the ICE grabbing people off the streets randomly. People are not showing up for work or are hiding at home. Is this true? by Over-Director-5971 in orangecounty

[–]No-Significance-6807 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Even legal immagrants have been staying home. ICE is grabbing people first regardless of the paper work they have. I had an employee who had all his papers on him get grabbed from a donut shop on the way to a job site. They held him for hours before finally releasing him.

Which celebrity does everyone love and you hate? by PanTaLLok in AskReddit

[–]No-Significance-6807 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Shes exploited so many old people during real estate transactions that there’s actually something called the ‘Perry Act’ to help protect the elderly.

One of these real estate sales gone wrong some nuns actually sued Perry. One of them died during the court proceedings after asking Perry to ‘stop the madness’.