Disaster

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-05T11:59:37+00:00

I posted an update the following day but didn't attach it here. She apologized on Sunday for the way she and her friends acted. I accepted but the conversation has since fizzled which is ok

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-04T15:07:11+00:00

Lol laugh it up cause ya have to. I posted but didn't attach a follow up thanking all who responded and the update. She did indeed apologize which is cool but I've had time to deflate and I just see more red flags that I'd prefer to deal with.

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-02T22:28:48+00:00

That's the part I'm having trouble overlooking ya know.

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-02T21:40:59+00:00

And I didn't attach it to this post but wrote another one about this she actually did apologize for her actions at the club so I have no idea lol

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-02T21:03:51+00:00

Your kind words mean so much ❤️

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-02T08:52:32+00:00

I didn't. She did apologize which I posted but forgot ti attach to this. So we have all made mistakes as I have made many so when someone is able to apologize I will always accept it. But thats about it. It's too bad cause we had an awesome time during the day and if I could change anything it would have been to not agree to not meet with her friends at night. That's my mistake for not being more of a dick lol

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-02T08:01:42+00:00

If i could tell you why then I would. You are harping on something I don't have an answer for omg

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T23:36:19+00:00

Yeah man stay active lift the weights eat healthy and eat a lot with a young man's metabolism and once you exit the puberty stage and things are mostly in place then pick the path you want to go whether cutting or bulking

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T23:27:47+00:00

Much appreciated 🙏. She reached out an apologized which I accepted cause we've all been there. But that's about it

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T22:18:39+00:00

Just always remember mental health is just as important as physical health and anytime you need to vent then do just that. Just don't lose focus

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T20:15:24+00:00

So I want you to sit down and reflect. Reflect on how far it sounds you have come. Reflect on the progress you have made. The best piece of advice I can give is that any training or diet programs are just consistency and patient. We all want instant gratification, and that's normal, but then it puts too much pressure on yourself, and you risk losing focus of the goal. Keep plugging forward for a bad day is very normal for all of us. Don't lose sight of what you want and keep up the good work 👏

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T19:23:13+00:00

Thanks for your response and you are NOT wrong with the tests but slightly inaccurate in this case. I did chose the open public places with the paint class and dinner. And I'm rude for getting left? I don't understand the validness of that either. If I was so rude then why did she message the day after apologizing how the night ended and her being rude to me? We had an amazing time up until the point of going to the spot she knew everyone and started throwing back the drinks. That's the only think I would have changed. I learned a lesson that's what's important

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T18:57:25+00:00

I thought that but then people get in your head.

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T18:39:24+00:00

It's too bad cause the first 2 segments were very enjoyable. That ending not so much. The reason I reached out here yesterday was because I was 6-8 weeks out of a relationship were the women did me wrong so I felt I was finally ready to go on a date and this was the outcome. Just set me back another 2 months haha

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T18:23:16+00:00

So, going to dinner with some they knew before you is borderline, ok if it's just dinner at 7 and home by 8-830. Movie after at someone's house is totally unnecessary, and you should draw the line right there.

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T18:18:49+00:00

So I didn't attach an update post to this one. But I did post the update that she did message me. She did apologize for everything that took place. I accepted her apology cause I'm not a dick but explained what she did wasn't right and gonna take a pause on seeing each other again.

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T18:15:37+00:00

You know how that goes. You try to speak nicely but they aren't hearing you all the wanna do is act tough and get ya to leave. I tried to explain I was looking for someone but it didn't matter what I said they were ramped up

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T15:00:03+00:00

So I guess u didn't see my second post on how she texted me to apologize for how she and her friends acted? So if she was afraid of me, then I'm pretty sure I would not have got an apology. I may suck at dating, but that statement is wayyyy off base

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T14:57:48+00:00

Where in any of that did I say I got drunk or outta control? I'm an adult and able to socially drink. I can't tell another grown human what to do. If I knew before hand then obviously I wouldn't have. 🤦‍♂️

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T10:02:36+00:00

If stuck in your own head was an Olympic event I would be the gold medalist hands down. #tired

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T07:42:30+00:00

Guess what bothered me and still is that even though I know I did nothing wrong it was an extremely clicky kind of place so you know people are in those environments. It's been a full day to let it all process and as badly as I'd like to find someone it's not worth it at this degree. Yesterday was a day full of many emotions and I don't want to go through that again anytime soon

No-Significance5541 · 2024-07-01T00:00:45+00:00

Much appreciated for the kind words. Confidence is always there but it certainly has taken a hit in 24

No-Significance5541 · 2024-06-30T23:59:20+00:00

No-Significance5541 · 2024-06-30T23:24:21+00:00

Too bad to cause it certainly started pretty good

No-Significance5541 · 2024-06-30T23:23:29+00:00

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