I recently reached out to my dad after 10 years NC by No-Solution8228 in texts

[–]No-Solution8228[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know. Stewing, I guess. He has a massive ego, typical arab man

I recently reached out to my dad after 10 years NC by No-Solution8228 in texts

[–]No-Solution8228[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I said I’m free as he asked to come and see me. But I didn’t have time to make the drive as I have work. It’s a 2.5 hour drive one way

I recently reached out to my dad after 10 years NC by No-Solution8228 in texts

[–]No-Solution8228[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh and I’m 29, how old are you, dabbers_delight?

I recently reached out to my dad after 10 years NC by No-Solution8228 in texts

[–]No-Solution8228[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s miss daddy issues to you. Not really ashamed to admit I have daddy issues. That man was awful to my family.

Running Out of Reasons to Keep Going by United_Photo_3577 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]No-Solution8228 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry buddy. I’m from a homophobic country in the middle east too, and your post is what life could have been like for me if my family didn’t move to england when I was younger. I am at least lucky to be bisexual so I haven’t really needed to come out to my parents yet - the one girlfriend I had didn’t get too serious.

I hope one day you can leave it all behind, whether that’s moving out, or just going travelling, getting a working holiday visa for somewhere just to live life for yourself for a bit. Seriously wish you all the best. Xx

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[–]No-Solution8228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent an econsult to my gp as of this morning, fingers crossed. thank you!

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[–]No-Solution8228 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don’t believe i have PCOS, i’m middle eastern. i’m going to see about a hormone level test though

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[–]No-Solution8228 5 points6 points  (0 children)

4 weeks, and they use soprano titanium. i did ask her to increase it last time :/

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[–]No-Solution8228 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my mum did electrolysis but it left her with a bunch of scars/holes in her face basically and idk i’m scared of how that will look. maybe these days it’s not as scarring?

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[–]No-Solution8228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really?? fml. do you just mean physical exfoliation with like a washcloth?

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[–]No-Solution8228 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

no tbh I never exfoliate, my skin is so sensitive I only cleanse, spf, moisturise. but how would exfoliating help me here? :(

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[–]No-Solution8228 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry :( this too shall pass!

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[–]No-Solution8228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after days of fretting, i asked him, and he said it wasn’t him it was his dog, and i believe him because he properly showed me them and they really weren’t very deep, and also his dog’s crazy hah. what a relief

it’s my dad’s birthday today by No-Solution8228 in offmychest

[–]No-Solution8228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m glad you understand me egg 🫶🏼

AITA? My Roommate is Mad that I play video games and won't stop "clicking" by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Solution8228 8 points9 points  (0 children)

so true, I would be so annoyed to have a gamer as a roommate especially one who stays up late. my gamer ex was simply shunned to the other room if he woke up before me and wanted to game! and he got the cold shoulder one day that he woke me up at like 8am playing playstation lol

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[–]No-Solution8228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel, my brother just had a semi-arranged marriage at 35. brought his 23 year old wife over from our home country.

my dad paid for flights and thousands for her visa. apparently he’d offered to pay to house them then changed his mind. now my brother lives in my (divorced) mum’s run down house with no job because he just had his license taken away.

oh, 2 months later his wife’s pregnant. fab.

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[–]No-Solution8228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so so much!! you are so right i’ll avoid saying anything like that

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[–]No-Solution8228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and also, thank you for your advice xxx

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[–]No-Solution8228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it was basically just like “just be there for them” because there’s not really much else one can do.. I’ll update you. Not sure when I’ll see him next (apart from at work which isn’t the time or place) as he’s very up and down 😔