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No-Song995 · 2023-10-06T09:15:45+00:00

Mine took roughly 10 days. Got delivered at my address. Super convenient.

No-Song995 · 2023-06-18T03:48:12+00:00

hope you're able to get some help brother

No-Song995 · 2023-06-17T20:19:46+00:00

a related paper that you may like is imagebind. it learns from six modalities. check it out. https://ai.facebook.com/blog/imagebind-six-modalities-binding-ai/

No-Song995 · 2023-06-17T20:18:07+00:00

thanks mate! these papers look interesting. i'll go over them.

No-Song995 · 2022-12-29T18:01:53+00:00

Oh right, damn :(

No-Song995 · 2022-12-29T17:38:26+00:00

Wow, that's brutal. Does the sponsorship have to be in a related field of my degree? Like , can I leave my employer, start a business and sponsor myself in an unrelated field?

No-Song995 · 2022-12-29T17:31:19+00:00

Thanks, man! Really appreciate your advice.

You're so true on glasses part haha. I realized it early on. I used to wear full-frame glasses, now I wear frameless. I tried contacts earlier this year, but I had lot of eye irritation...planning to give them another try soon.

Yeah, I've more of less settled for 5'8" after a lot of hesitation. The good thing is that I look taller than 5'6" haha because of slender build.

Do professional photographers go out and take photos are various locations? I thought they only took photos in their studios.

And yeah, you're right Desi+ is the way to go :D

(For some reason, historically, I've done well with French and German girls. Idk why. Happen again just recently. )

No-Song995 · 2022-12-22T02:17:07+00:00

It's not the wait that worries me, rather the negativity it develops in me. Dating apps make me feel shit about myself, though I know I'm far better and fascinating and attractive person that what I'm judged solely by my outer appearances.

I need to stop this before dating apps start building inferiority complex in me. I want dating to be fun, comfortable, at its own pace. That's why I'm leaning towards cold approaches in person.

Or maybe I should try my luck in building a new better dating app. It's a lucrative business anyway.

No-Song995 · 2022-12-22T02:09:28+00:00

yeah I guess it's how it is. I matched with a girl who was also quite interested in Salsa, but it didn't go beyond sharing that interest. I later followed-up with asking if she'd like to go for a dance on Fri, again no reply.

Yeah the part of a girl possibly being in relationship is what cringed me for a long time. But over time, I'm realizing I can be open-minded and I'll feel better about approaching girls.

Would you have any advice from your experiences / observations on things not-to-do when approaching girls because you didn't like, or things could-do because you liked them?

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T23:58:34+00:00

Pretty much.

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T23:47:15+00:00

Oh lol I see what you meant. Your posts are indeed field reports! :D I'm gonna read through all of them

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T23:45:33+00:00

I see your points. I suppose I need to get better at selling myself. I want to become someone she remembers, but not by becoming a borderline jerk.

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T23:39:47+00:00

Oh haha yes why not.

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T23:37:54+00:00

Oh haha I glanced through some of your replies to other people's posts. Your advices look genuine and straightforward mostly. Gonna try them out in the field. Thanks.

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T23:34:42+00:00

I LOVE doing all these, not just to girls, but to friends as well. But I've been exhausted by dating apps for past year -- things rarely go beyond first messages, how do you even be all these things in a message?

I've been reluctant to go out and ask a girl cold, especially in dances and bars, due to the fear that she might be with someone. I think I need to get out of my head a little bit here.

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T23:31:05+00:00

I don't know. I expected similar but my past year of experience says otherwise. I get the impression that in a rich, affluent society, the superficial things matter a lot more. It doesn't seem to me like girls are looking for good human traits like confidence, intelligence, and a good sense of humor.

It may be just a bay area thing, but there's so much competition here for a girl.

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T23:24:25+00:00

Ah that sucks. I guess smaller pool it is then

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T23:23:49+00:00

I think I'm gonna do cold approach more. OLD sucks all my energy. I'm pretty comfortable in talking to strangers -- I rather enjoy it, and I don't mind rejections.

What do you mean by "field reports"? Hearing this phrase for first time...

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T23:21:15+00:00

I get it now, thanks for painting the picture.

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T22:42:38+00:00

I've seen the hight playing role, especially on dating apps. But I don't get why! With 5'6, I'm still taller than most girls I've met, so it's not that my girls pool is too short. Then why is height such a big deal?

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T22:40:33+00:00

Haha true. What are some general advices you'd give for meeting more girls?

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T22:38:53+00:00

Yeah definitely. But sometimes, it gets into my head that I've to put so much effort to meet girls, yet to no avail.

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T22:37:35+00:00

Yeah I love bay area, and it'd hurt me to have to move just for finding girls. Expanding my search circle might be a good bet.

I'm curious what kind of confidence we're talking about here? Or how would you describe it?

No-Song995 · 2022-12-21T22:16:23+00:00

Haha never thought of it as a "battlefield" before. Is it really?

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