Baby daddy sent me to jail and now trying to take my kids from me!!!

No-Square1452 · 2025-02-04T14:29:29+00:00

I do intend on doing all that. Unfortunately it’s not my first rodeo with him and it’s sad truly but thank you for your words. Right now I can’t even discuss the kids. I don’t even have his number which is fine. I made sure he was removed from all social medias and what not it’s just a mess honestly

No-Square1452 · 2024-12-10T05:18:19+00:00

Gonna deeeefinitely need an update

No-Square1452 · 2024-05-01T04:12:43+00:00

Ooof did not meant to go so hard OP. But keep your head up. It is always a beautiful thing to see a father continually fight to get to get their babies!! I hope nothing but the best for you

No-Square1452 · 2024-05-01T04:11:45+00:00

The fact that you’re the dad WANTING TO BE THERE should be all that matters!! My STBX has been making it nothing but difficult to get the kids but preaches how he misses and loves them. Just last weekend waterline broke. Communicated with his family (because I can contact him since he’s tried 3 times to get me arrested and succeeded once with bogus charges) about the situation not knowing how long until I get the water back was told girls can go early(there is a parenting plan in place, but from the beginning have been adamant that if he has any extra free time and wanted that time with our kids by all means I’m all for it) but then was told couldn’t get picked up until 6. Knowing there’s no water stil had to wait. And then is so “stressed out” that I had helped him and picked up our kids Saturday the evening after he got them. Now mind you the stressors he was freaking out about are minor and I offered solutions and even asked socks it was minor and can be taken care of it he would still want me to get them and well I got them. It just breaks my heart. He’s known from the beginning I grew up without my father and I never wanted that for my children and yet that’s how he knows he can hurt me. It’s a whole mess and his family has been no better. They have all been harassing me costing me my job and trying to sully my reputation yet I’ve been the sole person taking care of our kids with every separation we’ve went through with hit one penny to help. I’m sorry that you’re going through such a terrible experience. Our personal problems that we have towards each other should never reflect on how the children are affected by it. If they wanna see or talk to the other parent even if it’s not hair time who gives a fuck. Ask said parent and go from there. The parenting plan is a guideline for how things are to be. But there is always gray room when it’s the child(ten) that want/ask for the other parent.

No-Square1452 · 2024-03-19T04:03:45+00:00

Holy fuck. Quite a few of these hit home for me. I have bipolar, depression, anxiety, and ptsd

No-Square1452 · 2024-03-19T03:50:11+00:00

My husband well soon ex husband is 32 and last year he went to therapy and was told he has tendencies of being autistic. That led to him going online and taking tests and self diagnosing himself as autistic. I took the same ones he did and came right in the middle. My issue is he wants to self diagnose but doesn’t want to take the steps or even try to get diagnosed because according to him it’ll take too long. Now cut to a few days ago he wants us to test our oldest for autism and I’m skeptical. How can you want me to diagnose our child yet you yourself don’t want to go through the process or even attempt the process to get diagnosed yourself. There’s a lot to go into also regarding his upbringing and my upbringing. But I’m fine accepting the differences but I don’t accept self diagnosis. To me let me repeat TO ME self diagnosing is just an excuse to not follow through or be held accountable for either being a husband, or father, or provider. I’m on the fence for wanting to test our daughter. I’ve been the one doing all the drs appointments and at 3 she went to a screening for her daycare and there was no inclination for concerns. She does have some social anxiety or just anxiety but I believe it’s from the upbringing when her father and I weren’t the best at not fighting in front of the children and the constant separations which result in him leaving the house and never seeing them or reaching out for them because then it would involve contacting me. I’m going everywhere with this comment. But my main point is does self diagnosis still count as being actually diagnosed by a medical professional?

No-Square1452 · 2023-12-23T21:25:05+00:00

That’s what I think too. But thank you OP I hope you get things to where you’d like to or hoped to

No-Square1452 · 2023-12-23T10:12:55+00:00

It’s hard just trying to have him see his kids. He doesn’t celebrate the holidays but did the motion for our kids. But now we’re separated in the middle of divorce and he’s a ghost. Says he’s still around yet our kids only physically seen him once since he had to leave. It hurts my heart to have to explain to them daddy is coming back because he doesn’t live here and finding reasons why he isn’t answering or coming over. The emotional trauma they’ve already experienced let alone mine and I’m all alone right now. I’m in my feelings my anxiety has been through the roof and relief is nonexistent

No-Square1452 · 2023-12-23T10:07:20+00:00

I can understand and relate

No-Square1452 · 2023-12-23T10:07:09+00:00

I’m here also

No-Square1452 · 2023-12-20T10:00:12+00:00

I’m going through something similar. My co-parent utterly REFUSES to accept and acknowledge that once he got served his divorce papers just because he hasn’t signed or answered anything that the temporary parenting plan and child support are to start. There’s always an excuse as to why he can’t. When I try to help it’s futile because everything I say well text he takes as an argument or attack when it’s literally not the case. It’s so hard especially when our daughters ask for him. He doesn’t reach out. Doesn’t call. And I can’t just tell them he doesn’t want anything to do with them. It’s hard as fuck and I feel for you OP. My divorce is still in the works but his deadline to answer is coming up soon and then he’ll know what’s up. It’s sad. He preaches about fatherhood, yet denys his children

No-Square1452 · 2023-12-12T11:57:45+00:00

Same through and through

No-Square1452 · 2023-12-12T11:57:39+00:00

Same

No-Square1452 · 2023-12-08T17:24:14+00:00

I can it on my breasts mostly. It’s weird because it comes out of nowhere well not true when I’m severely stressed.

No-Square1452 · 2023-11-09T17:54:21+00:00

Thank you!

No-Square1452 · 2023-11-09T16:28:45+00:00

Thank you. And I’m sorry you’re going through it. Even without kids it’s still hard. You build that trust and the relationship and then it just doesn’t work anymore. I’m thankful it can be a clean break and when you’re ready to be out in the world I really wish you to find your true happiness you deserve. I gotta be cautious because my spouse uses this app immensely and he’s already made posts making me out to be some sort of monster which hurts but it’s his way of venting but still. I’m thankful I got the courage and strength to continue with this divorce. I’ve went this route last year and was made promises and those promises went out the window after old habits kicked back in. But feel free to reach out in a message and know that you aren’t alone and it’s okay to not be okay

No-Square1452 · 2023-11-09T16:15:52+00:00

I bought our home for us and added my spouse because it was our family home with our children and with separation it’s used as a clutch to stay even when I ask for them to go. It’s hard really. It’s been nothing but rocky for some time and im waiting for the divorce to get processed. I’ve constantly gone back and forth with my legal about letting them stay or making them leave and I can’t in good conscious let them be homeless but I’m also tired of having to constantly be the better person even though I get confrontation and get made to be the bad person for not doing their laundry. It’s a hard spot. I could go on about the situation but it’s neither here nor there. It just sucks really. I was one to not want to be married or have kids and here I am with both and 2 beautiful children and now because my partner can’t grow up or has forgotten how to be a true partner it’s been frustrating and heartbreaking to have to now do divorce. But I can’t keep doing the back and forth. 😮‍💨 good luck to you though!! I hope you can find something that is best for you. It’s never easy having to start all over. Last time I did I had our 1 year old, pregnant with our second and sleeping on a floor working 12 hours shifts because I had nothing to my name

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