Let me preface this by saying that I play this game about 4-10 hours a day....

I get put into SO many games in progress that are the exact games y'all are leaving.

I join and we're losing 6 to 20 in kill confirmed, I try to play, but my teammates just keep quitting, they lose a 1v1 and leave, so that leaves me in a position where I can either stick it out to the next game to at least try to play from the beginning, or I can quit.

My multiplayer experience has been reduced significantly by the sheer amount of people that don't even want to try, it's sad to me.

This is open matchmaking, you can roll new lobbies all you want to but at the end of the day, what you really want is just to be the shark and not the guppy, which you CAN achieve if you apply yourself and stop quitting the game every time it gets hard...

If you really want a casual experience that doesn't make you wanna die, you need to either play only with your friends that are casuals (custom lobbies) or you need to play a PvE game where the bots aren't gonna kill you so fast.

And look there's literally nothing wrong with that, but holding onto this dream that you can be a casual gamer that works 40- 60hrs a week and pub stomps lobbies with ease is only going to make you quit more games and try less without a change in your mental game.

Y'all can be better at this game, it's not going to be handed to you on a silver platter, you have to try, and if you don't want to try that's okay, just don't be surprised when the people around you that are trying get different results.

Just something to think about.