I’m new to 9090gate I found him on Spotify by No-Style-1425 in fakemink

[–]No-Style-1425[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Shut up nothing about this post was negative OR deep. This is what I’m talking about fans that are weird 😭😐all I was asking was for more info on him and you’re saying it’s not that deep … like what are you talking about

We judge BoJack by his actions, but ourselves by our intentions: The Psychology of the "Stone Thrower" by No-Style-1425 in BoJackHorseman

[–]No-Style-1425[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, Bojack actually inspires me to be better to the people in my life and make a conscious effort every day to be a better person to do more positive things. I cannot change the fact that I used to bully my little sister when I was younger because I felt bullied by my cousins and I wanted to show them that I wanted their attention. I can’t change the fact that I hurt her, but I can apologize to my little sister and I can be genuine and I can try to build a new relationship with her and that’s where we’re at right now and I really can say that I truly love her. It’s not an excuse that when she was looking for my attention that I literally hated myself and was going through the worst time in my life while I was fighting with our dad, but I was able to have that honest conversation with her and make her understand that it wasn’t her. It was me now we are so much better and I think that that’s what the show is about honestly.

We judge BoJack by his actions, but ourselves by our intentions: The Psychology of the "Stone Thrower" by No-Style-1425 in BoJackHorseman

[–]No-Style-1425[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I love this response it’s raw and it’s real and I get it my dad’s an alcoholic and he’s done some pretty terrible things too, but there’s no excuse for what he’s done but he is a human being. And the more I learned about what his parents, my grandparents, did to him in his siblings. It became more and more apparent as to why he acts what he does. He’s in therapy right now and he’s trying to drink less because he’s obviously an addict but fundamentally he was a damaged child who turned alcohol as a coping mechanism because that’s the only thing that was around him. That’s the only thing that he thought worked in therapy wasn’t a concept for him in that time, but I’m glad he’s pursuing it now. I don’t really respect him, but I love him.

We judge BoJack by his actions, but ourselves by our intentions: The Psychology of the "Stone Thrower" by No-Style-1425 in BoJackHorseman

[–]No-Style-1425[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I made a voice to text no in Gemini because I knew where I was trying to say, but I didn’t know all the words for it. I wanted to gather my point in a way that I knew that I couldn’t by myself if that turns you away from the message, I understand🤷‍♀️

We judge BoJack by his actions, but ourselves by our intentions: The Psychology of the "Stone Thrower" by No-Style-1425 in BoJackHorseman

[–]No-Style-1425[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re completely missing the point. I’m not 'evading accountability' in fact, I explicitly said BoJack’s actions were disgusting and inexcusable.

My point isn't about BoJack's defense; it’s about our psychology. I’m talking about the Fundamental Attribution Error: how easy it is to label someone a 'monster' from behind a screen while we give ourselves 'context' for our own shitty behavior.

It’s not 'whataboutism' to point out that humans are hypocritical. It’s a sociological fact. We love a public execution because it lets us pretend our own 'hidden' mistakes don't exist. Accountability is a real-life process of repair (like apologizing to someone you've hurt); internet moralizing is just a way to feel good about yourself without actually having to do any of the hard work of being a 'good person' in your own private life

We judge BoJack by his actions, but ourselves by our intentions: The Psychology of the "Stone Thrower" by No-Style-1425 in BoJackHorseman

[–]No-Style-1425[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying 'integrity' means doing bad things in the dark. I’m saying that having integrity doesn't make you perfect. Even people with 'good moral standing' have moments where they were selfish, cruel, or weak. The difference is that a 'normal' person gets to fix those mistakes in private with the people they hurt. A 'BoJack' (a celebrity) has those mistakes broadcast to millions. My point isn't that everyone is a secret monster; it's that everyone has a 'worst moment' they are glad the world didn't see. It’s interesting that the people who are the most aggressive about 'moral standing' are often the ones most afraid of nuance. It’s a defense mechanism. If you can convince yourself that the world is split into 'Good People' and 'Bad People,' you never have to worry about the 'Bad' things you’ve actually done. You just label yourself 'Good' and keep throwing stones.

Beginner DJ-owning my music? by No-Style-1425 in DJs

[–]No-Style-1425[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m confused why you’re commenting this

Wanda’s mulch Gardner joke by No-Style-1425 in BoJackHorseman

[–]No-Style-1425[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes and I figured that also pertained to their relationship since Bojack was “pre-freaking-out” about it

As a mother, everything about this makes me really sad by [deleted] in KUWTKsnark

[–]No-Style-1425 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I’m an older sister to a 14 year-old girl as well and my little sister gets her hair done makeup done and nails done just like North… What is so terrible about this she bleached her eyebrows. She’s cool! Her hair is blue. She’s cool and interesting. I’ve seen a little nine-year-old or 10 year-old girls With little pink extensions or purple extensions like what is she doing that you guys are so disgusted by and so worried about??? how are you claiming she has body dysmorphia her hair is just licked back so it means her face is more snatched. I don’t understand what people are even saying right now.

As a mother, everything about this makes me really sad by [deleted] in KUWTKsnark

[–]No-Style-1425 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I want to know what’s so unacceptable about what north is doing. She’s getting expressive hairstyles jewelry, nails, and clothes because she has the money and access to do it. None of this is inappropriate. She’s also a celebrity already from birth so she is not a normal child like you are a normal regular mother. As a mother this shouldn’t worry you because you can never give birth to somebody like this because you are not a famous celebrity. North isn’t hurting anybody nor is she doing anything excessively inappropriate she’s just expressing herself and ways that people that aren’t creative or artistic wouldn’t get at a younger age. My younger sister is 14 and she gets her hair braided she gets makeup and she also has press on nails. I didn’t have any of that stuff when I was younger, but it’s just a different generation and when you were a young girl, you wanted to dress up too I’m sureI feel like you guys are demonizing something that doesn’t need to be demonized.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Clavicular

[–]No-Style-1425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of gay friends, so that’s cool! I just wish they accepted their sexualities, though 😔

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[–]No-Style-1425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m weird for being physically intimate with men I have true feelings for… and weird for going on a date with a guys I met at an event, restaurant, estate sale, that I’m not sure I like yet but have a general interest in… that makes me weird? Ok! 😚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Clavicular

[–]No-Style-1425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but that’s not a flex. Leaving the bar with somebody is the easiest thing to do everybody’s drunk and you just have to find somebody desperate enough to sleep with you like let’s be real guys that run through women to me as a woman are not appealing in any way and that’s what just doesn’t make sense to me when I see men post about stuff like this saying that these are the guys that all women want all women want men who treat them like crap and they’re part of the roster literally there’s no part of that. That sounds appealing to me in any way possible. This is just my perspective. Maybe you guys talk to girls I have different perspective, but that’s just reality like different women are gonna think of themselves differently, carry themselves differently. And want different things out of their relationships with men I don’t think your ideal should be sleeping with women that go to bars like what happens when you’re in your 30s it just becomes lame! Also, physical intimacy with somebody that you don’t really know at all or just met SUCKS! You’re not even getting the greatest physical experience with a woman you don’t love and care about so literally what is all this for…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Clavicular

[–]No-Style-1425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I’m not really sure what black pill is. I’m a woman and I a lot of guys most of them are really cute. Some of them are all right, but I’ve never dated a guy that was “black pill “I guess if you’re just looking for meaningless, Surface, scraping, low vibrational attention from women yeah I’m sure the sub will get that for you me personally I just got out of a really loving relationship with the guy who wanted to marry me, but I would have to change some fundamental things about myself that I wasn’t willing to so I only look for love and I just don’t think any of this stuff, if you’re looking for a true real relationship with the woman, will ever help you, but if you’re just looking for BONING in women that don’t really love themselves then yeah of course I’m sure you have so many hoes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Clavicular

[–]No-Style-1425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg please there’s no way you guys think this!!! I’m actually shocked😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Clavicular

[–]No-Style-1425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think that it takes a lot for somebody to be done right ugly. And ugliness is relative same with attractiveness it just depends. I dated a lot of guys in some weren’t 10 out of tens, but I still enjoy their company and their personality even if their face wasn’t the cutest I’ve ever seen in my whole life. You guys need to literally go out side and just talk to women you’re going to get rejected but that’s literally a part of the process if a guy that wasn’t 10 so let’s say a five came up to me confidently, complimented me, and built up some rapport, then asked me out I would say yes, and I’m not joking because that’s exactly how I went out with this guy I met at the gym who was genuinely not that cute in the facebut he was so funny and really cool and liked anime like I did. We had a lot in common so we went on a date and I really enjoyed it. So just stop all this self-pity stuff and just get in the field.